I just had the worst Gig ever!

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I'm going to try and step in for Rox here (Update: I don't have to - he posted next)

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Well Rox, I respect your opinion, but you couldn't be more wrong. You assume too much (and you know what that means). It sounds like your a bit bitter about DJ's that low ball their pricing and take business from you. I'm not one of those people. First of all I did a favor for one of my very best friends (who is a web designer and IT Director that designed my website and does all of my internet optimization for free). I guess when you started your business people were just throwing money at you and you were turning down gigs left and right! I think not, everyone has to start somewhere.

I don't think he was wrong for assuming - we're using similar information, that we have seen and heard for others in similar situations. Could you be an oddball that matches others situations, absolutely.

Rox started out the same as everyone else, by getting out there and doing it - although I don't think many of his (nor mine) were for $150.00.

I also don't think he's bitter about DJ's low balling him - I think he's trying to inform you that you're low balling yourself.

I am also establishing a new business, so I am willing to do a gig at a more affordable price to gain experience and get exposure.

So 300.00 is not more affordable, compared to 400 - 500 (for other DJ's)?

I've been in sales for over 20 years and there's no better advertising than "word of mouth".

Personally, 20 years of sales experience means crap if you weren't selling DJ or entertainment services. If anything, you would know (from being a salesman) that you get what you pay for, hence your prices should have been in line with the others. If all cars cost 30,000 dollars and one guy is selling it for 10,000 - would you not assume that something may be wrong with it - why are they giving it away for that price? Are they losing money? If he's selling it for 10k, why aren't the others? etc, etc. Personally, this would force me over to one of the 30k cars - all kinds of alarms would be going off in my head. Honestly, do you ever think you'll get a ferrari (100k) for the price of a prius (30k)?

Absolutely correct, there is no better advertising than word of mouth - especially when people know they can get something for nothing. Again, I can't compete with free - but free can't compete with me and the infamous Rule #1, You Get What You Pay For. Do you think you're saving the world by dropping prices? You're actually costing yourself money and if you don't believe me, get Rick to give you a business model view of this scenario.

As far as thinking the craft is "so simple", it's obvious that I don't or I wouldn't be here for advice on how to improve myself.

I agree with this statement.

$100 per hour is not running a profitable, insured legitimate business? Your way off buddy.

Depending on how you run your business, you may be profitable at $100.00 per hour. You were not at $100.00 per hour though, you were at $50.00 per hour. That's not profitable.

It was a 12 year olds 3 hour B-Day party at a small hall 1.5 miles from my house. It took me 4 minutes to get there. I would have charged $300 to $350 to a stranger. This is a fair price to my customers and I make a decent profit as well. This wasn't a wedding! I don't low ball my pricing, if anything I lose more business to the low ballers out there than I'd like to admit.

I think we need to clarify something in this paragraph. This wasn't a party for 'A' 12 year old. This was a party for multiple 12 year olds. Regardless of where it is or for however long it is, it SHOULD have been at least 300 for a lead, let alone a stranger. In your first post, you said a 'lead from a friend' - to me, that is a stranger. A lead from my uncle is - you guessed it, a stranger. Some of us have referral fee's - where do you think the referral fee goes? If you drop your price, it comes out of your pocket.

Not once did you mention this was "a favor for one of my very best friends (who is a web designer and IT Director that designed my website and does all of my internet optimization for free)." This might have changed Rox's reply a bit, as well as mine. It's hard to give advice or opinions if you don't provide all the important information. You asked our advice, and most of us said - if your competition is in x, y, z range then that's probably where you should be. ANY self respecting, professional grade DJ would realize that his or her equipment, time, media costs, services, etc are well worth at least that.

We don't feel that we are low balling (nor high balling) our customers either, yet most of us, if not all of us, are in a much higher price range.

I would have charged $300 to $350 to a stranger. This is a fair price to my customers and I make a decent profit as well. This wasn't a wedding!

I have to make an educated guess (by this message) that you charge 300 - 350 for a Wedding? I can't figure out for the life of me how (nor why) you think this is ok.

I don't low ball my pricing, if anything I lose more business to the low ballers out there than I'd like to admit.

We don't low ball our pricing. There are others cheaper than 150 for a 3 hour show? Lord help us!

I have a DJ company in my area that does weddings for $695?? It makes me sick and I'm sure that's the feeling their customers have by the end of the night as well.

I try to specialize in Weddings so I take this one personally. Bluntly, I despise people that look at Weddings like this. Some of us strive to make that day the very best it can be. We spend hours and hours on preparing for this day and then people like you get 'sick' over how much we charge for it. Go perform your job all week and get paid for 1 day of it and then let's see if you have the same opinion. If you don't value your (nor your clients) time and event (let alone, equipment, media, service, etc, etc), then please stay out of the wedding arena, much less other arena's. By not understanding nor accepting this, you're actually hurting yourself and the rest of us - which you can feel free to do because in time, you'll either burnout like all the others, or you'll realize that we speak the truth and fall in line - and help defend and practice what we preach.

Let's do some simple math: using your price of 100.00 per hour for a 695.00 wedding, this would cover 6.95 hours of service. Most receptions are 4 hours with 1 hour to setup and 1 hour to tear down (some need more than that). That's 6 hours. Now add in all the hours you spent talking to the client or working on documents, costs and time for obtaining needed music, other requirements, etc. Unless you can accomplish this all in under .95 hours, then you're now under your own rate of 100.00 per hour.

This same calculation using 50.00 per hour brings the show cost down to 347.50 for the same amount of work, purchasing, etc. I SERIOUSLY doubt you're a threat to my survival at either rate. To boot, your rate is also less than 50.00 per hour by the time you got done with all the extra stuff involved with a wedding.

One thing I have discovered, people are not afraid to invest in quality and know it when they see it. If you think you're qualified, then I think we challenge you to raise your prices to that of your competitors and find out.

PS: I don't think ANY of my weddings have felt sick over the price of their shows - as evidenced by repeat parties, referrals, etc.

To you, maybe the Wedding is a typical show that you show up, get paid for and leave. To us, it's a very significant event that takes lots of work and coordination. I'm pretty certain I can speak for all of us when I say our time is valuable. Is yours not?

As far as insurance, I belong to WEDJ, where I get a discount on insurance
(1,000,000 Liability and equipment coverage) for $500.00 per year. If you read my post I've been DJing for over 15 years so I have built a strong legit music library. I also belong to Promo only which I get the latest music every month at reasonable prices. Anything else I need to get for a specific event is purchased through Amazon. I don't even know where to get free music downloads! I thought sites like that have been shut down.

I do too but 150 doesn't buy much music nor does it cover your cost for the 500.00 year. Now lets add in taxes you will have to pay, equipment costs, fuel, vehicle insurance, food, drinks, etc. FYI - I started collecting my music 25 years ago - that doesn't help me with the cost of current music you might need for a 12 year old party.

I wish you would have given me good advice instead of ASSUMING things and reading deeper into something that was not there. You are probably a great DJ with lots of valuable information that someone like me could have used.

He tried to give you good advice - we all have. Rox is just a little more blunt about some things.

Here's some good advice for you,“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.”

I TOTALLY disagree. For some people, that may be their prime purpose. Rick's is to drink and program. We try to help each other here on this forum however (analogy time), you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink it.

I think Rox did go a little overboard but we have all come across nonprofessionals too many times.

I don't.

Take the advice of Rox as constructive criticism

Agreed.


I've only given a couple deep discounts. However it's been family or very close personal friends and not 50%. I'm running a business not a charity.

Agreed.

I just hope your friend gives one of your friends a 50% discount on his services.

TOTALLY AGREED - but it should be more like 66% -70% - and it wasn't a friend of a friend. According to the post, it was a lead from a friend. There is a difference.

Agreed, but my friend designed and maintains my website for free. I told him if he ever needed anything from me I would be glad to help him out. So I did. The amount of work he's done for me would have cost thousands if I hired a web designer. And yes he designed and maintains my cousins website for free as well. He also fixes all of my families computers for free too. We've been friends since we were 9, so we do things like this for each other.

This goes back to not providing us enough initial insight and also hoping he gives a 'lead' of yours a huge discount.

*Original Post and replies*

I was hoping someone would have some advice for me. I’ve been a novice DJ for more than 15 years and recently decided to take my love for music and Djing to the next level and started my own DJ business. I’ve done a lot of parties for family and friends over the last 15 years and I never had an experience like the one I had last night.

I’ve done about 10 paying Gigs over the last few months and everything went very well at all of them. I’ve done two weddings an anniversary party and seven birthday parties. And last night happened! It was horrible.

I got a lead from a friend of mine a few months ago. Two of his friends were having a 12th birthday party for their daughters and they needed a DJ. They were low on cash and the Gig was only three hours long so I agreed to do it cheap. They were getting quotes between $400 and $500. Since they were friends of my good friend and the hall was 1.5 miles from my house, I told them I would do it for $150. Since I usually get about $100 per hour, they were paying half price.

Well here’s what happened. I have a detailed questionnaire which asks the client for very specific information such as song requests, special announcements, how much DJ interaction they would like, if they would like any games played or props, ect. I sent it to them and asked them to complete it several times but they never did. I didn’t want to be pushy so I stopped asking them for it. They sent me a list of about 75 songs they wanted and said they just wanted it to be like a school dance. So I stopped asking for the questionnaire. I got there, set up and started playing the music. After about 35 minutes one of the parents started telling me to start playing different music (keep in mind this is the music they requested). So I changed things up a bit to make her happy, although all the kids were dancing anyhow. It seemed as if anytime a few of the kids stopped dancing she would tell me to “say something to pump of the crowd and keep them dancing”. I’m not a huge interactive DJ, but I was making announcements through the night like “ Is every body having a good time?” and “put your hands together for so and so’s B-day”. She must have told me to talk to the crowd like 15 times and I was running out of things to say! What do most DJ’s do or say to pump up the crowd? In this situation I think the party didn’t need me to say much, most of the night the floor was full, but at some points they dwindled down to maybe 20 or so people (there was 56 kids at the party).

Also out of nowhere she said “Do you do Limbo”? I said yes but I don’t have a bamboo stick with me. She was pissed and found a broom and we played limbo. She then said what other games can we play? I told her I wish she would have completed the questionnaire so I would have been prepared for this. But I played the Freeze Dance game and then musical chairs. She also came over a few times and told me to stop playing a song right in the middle of it. She didn’t want me to find a good place to transition into another song, she just wanted me to stop it and move to the next song. It was horrible.

How do DJ’s deal with people like this? What could I have done to avoid this? How should I have handled her?(because I feel like I lost control of the party). Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
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I'm not pickin' on you - but is it possible to be a novice dj after 15 years? This doesn't sound like a bad show - although it does sound like a "Rule #1: You get what you pay for" incident. In view of some of the shows some of the rest of us have had, this could be a typical night. Generally, I've seen that the more a show costs, the more professional they treat you.

Most of us DJ's have grown thick skin. We have learned to tolerate people. My best advice for you - this is how some shows are, especially in the bottom feeding arena. Some shows will make this one look really bad and other ones will make you wish you had one like this one.

Another recent saying I like is "I can't compete with free but free can't compete with me". I refuse to drop my price below a certain level. Time and time again over the years, I've found that the parties you get the least on, want and expect as much as your expensive shows. If you're willing to do all that work for that little pay, then so be it but be aware.

FYI - if everyone else was 400 - 500, that's probably where your fees should have been if you provide a comparable service.

Analogy of the day - Most people don't go to a high class restaurant looking for a McDonald's cheeseburger.

Good question - from the message, here's what I gleaned:

"Two of his friends were having a 12th birthday party for their daughters and they needed a DJ. They were low on cash and the Gig was only three hours long so I agreed to do it cheap. They were getting quotes between $400 and $500. Since they were friends of my good friend and the hall was 1.5 miles from my house, I told them I would do it for $150. Since I usually get about $100 per hour, they were paying half price."

Two parent's wanted to have a party, they were low on cash.

"Well here’s what happened. I have a detailed questionnaire which asks the client for very specific information such as song requests, special announcements, how much DJ interaction they would like, if they would like any games played or props, ect. I sent it to them and asked them to complete it several times but they never did. I didn’t want to be pushy so I stopped asking them for it. They sent me a list of about 75 songs they wanted and said they just wanted it to be like a school dance. So I stopped asking for the questionnaire. I got there, set up and started playing the music. After about 35 minutes one of the parents started telling me to start playing different music"

Ray sent messages to "them" asking them to complete the questionnaire. "One of the parents started telling me ..."

Who's name is on the contract is the important part. We try to please all guests but direction should be provided by the contracted client.
 
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Well Rox, I respect your opinion, but you couldn't be more wrong. You assume too much (and you know what that means). It sounds like your a bit bitter about DJ's that low ball their pricing and take business from you. I'm not one of those people. First of all I did a favor for one of my very best friends (who is a web designer and IT Director that designed my website and does all of my internet optimization for free). I am also establishing a new business, so I am willing to do a gig at a more affordable price to gain experience and get exposure. I've been in sales for over 20 years and there's no better advertising than "word of mouth". I guess when you started your business people were just throwing money at you and you were turning down gigs left and right! I think not, everyone has to start somewhere.

As far as thinking the craft is "so simple", it's obvious that I don't or I wouldn't be here for advice on how to improve myself.

$100 per hour is not running a profitable, insured legitimate business? Your way off buddy. It was a 12 year olds 3 hour B-Day party at a small hall 1.5 miles from my house. It took me 4 minutes to get there. I would have charged $300 to $350to a stranger. This is a fair price to my customers and I make a decent profit as well. This wasn't a wedding! I don't low ball my pricing, if anything I lose more business to the low ballers out there than I'd like to admit. I have a DJ company in my area that does weddings for $695?? It makes me sick and I'm sure that's the feeling their customers have by the end of the night as well.

As far as insurance, I belong to WEDJ, where I get a discount on insurance
(1,000,000 Liability and equipment coverage) for $500.00 per year. If you read my post I've been DJing for over 15 years so I have built a strong legit music library. I also belong to Promo only which I get the latest music every month at reasonable prices. Anything else I need to get for a specific event is purchased through Amazon. I don't even know where to get free music downloads! I thought sites like that have been shut down.

I wish you would have given me good advice instead of ASSUMING things and reading deeper into something that was not there. You are probably a great DJ with lots of valuable information that someone like me could have used.

Here's some good advice for you,“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.”

You can make whatever claims you desire.

If you would look beyond the surface, you'd realize that your not helping anyone other than yourself and you are certainly hurting others by operating in the manner in which you choose.

Furthermore, you assume the $695 services are ripping people off.

Remember, there is only one ass in assume, so that old trite saying is mathematically inconsistent.
 
My understanding was that he felt $695 was a "lowball" price. Not a high end price that makes him sick...
That is inconsistent with the other "information" in the post.

In context, his disgust is clearly with the alleged excessive nature of a $695.00 fee. Notice it based on his assumptions and prejudices.
 
I think you guys are misunderstanding me. $695.00 is a low ball price for a wedding and it makes me sick. My starting price for a four hour standard wedding without all the bells and whistles starts at $1,200. I spend between 30 and 35 hours on a single wedding. This includes travel, meeting with clients several times, phone conversations, set up/breakdown, planning and performing for four hours. And if they start adding extra's like uplighting and pin spots, ect. the price goes up from there.

For a regular party such as B-Days, retirement parties ect. I charge $100 -$125 per hour. This is the going rate in my area. I did market research and found that good DJ's in my area are charging about the same price. There are a few that are priced a bit higher and many that are priced too low.

I was not more specific about why I discounted the price so much for my friend because I didn't think it made any difference. I treated the event as if they were paying me $100 per hour. I didn't expect that you guys would be so interested in what I charged them or why I charged them so little. If I knew it was going to be such a big deal, I would have explained in more detail. But as I said before my friend does alot of free work for me and my family, so that's why I only charged his friend $150. I DO NOT DO THIS ON A REGULAR BASIS. I'm doing a 50th B-Day for my Mom's cousin on April 30th and I'm charging her $350 for a four hour party. It's a little below what I charge strangers, but it's still a good deal for her. I think you all misinterpreted me and part of that is my fault for not explaing the situation completely.

The purpose of this post was to get advice on how to deal with PITA people that attempt to micromanage me. And also see what others say on the mic to help keep people motivated. And also what I could do to get them to complete the questionnaire, so I can plan the party according to their needs. Most of those questions have been answerd. I was not trying to get advice on how to price a party! I just wanted to give some basic background info so you guys would have some idea of what I was dealing with. I wanted you to know I did a favor for a good friend and charged a ridiculously low price and I felt it was rude of the PITA parent to tell me how to do my job. When they couldn't even afford to hire a DJ in the first place.

I do not need advice on how to price my events. I know my market and I know I'm priced at about the same as most of my competition. And as my business starts to grow I will increase my pricing to be among the higher priced DJ's in my area and charge about $150.00per hour for a normal party (not a wedding, they would be priced at a higher rate). But I just started this business in Dec. and I feel I shouldn't be asking for premium pricing when I'm a brand new DJ with no following and only a few paying gigs under my belt.

Based on the business experience I have, I figure I will be operating in the red for at least three years before I get to the break even point. By then I should have more referrals and a larger client base, which will alow me to increase my pricing to maximize my profits and possibly hire additional people.

I've spent alot of money on marketing, new equipment and music and I know it will take some time to see a return on my investment.

So if your willing to help me with my MC skills and how to deal with PITA people, then please feel free to give me advice. But if you want to focus on my pricing just don't bother posting because it's a waste of your and my time.
 
I think you guys are misunderstanding me. $695.00 is a low ball price for a wedding and it makes me sick. My starting price for a four hour standard wedding without all the bells and whistles starts at $1,200. I spend between 30 and 35 hours on a single wedding. This includes travel, meeting with clients several times, phone conversations, set up/breakdown, planning and performing for four hours. And if they start adding extra's like uplighting and pin spots, ect. the price goes up from there.

For a regular party such as B-Days, retirement parties ect. I charge $100 -$125 per hour. This is the going rate in my area. I did market research and found that good DJ's in my area are charging about the same price. There are a few that are priced a bit higher and many that are priced too low.

I was not more specific about why I discounted the price so much for my friend because I didn't think it made any difference. I treated the event as if they were paying me $100 per hour. I didn't expect that you guys would be so interested in what I charged them or why I charged them so little. If I knew it was going to be such a big deal, I would have explained in more detail. But as I said before my friend does alot of free work for me and my family, so that's why I only charged his friend $150. I DO NOT DO THIS ON A REGULAR BASIS. I'm doing a 50th B-Day for my Mom's cousin on April 30th and I'm charging her $350 for a four hour party. It's a little below what I charge strangers, but it's still a good deal for her. I think you all misinterpreted me and part of that is my fault for not explaing the situation completely.

The purpose of this post was to get advice on how to deal with PITA people that attempt to micromanage me. And also see what others say on the mic to help keep people motivated. And also what I could do to get them to complete the questionnaire, so I can plan the party according to their needs. Most of those questions have been answerd. I was not trying to get advice on how to price a party! I just wanted to give some basic background info so you guys would have some idea of what I was dealing with. I wanted you to know I did a favor for a good friend and charged a ridiculously low price and I felt it was rude of the PITA parent to tell me how to do my job. When they couldn't even afford to hire a DJ in the first place.

I do not need advice on how to price my events. I know my market and I know I'm priced at about the same as most of my competition. And as my business starts to grow I will increase my pricing to be among the higher priced DJ's in my area and charge about $150.00per hour for a normal party (not a wedding, they would be priced at a higher rate). But I just started this business in Dec. and I feel I shouldn't be asking for premium pricing when I'm a brand new DJ with no following and only a few paying gigs under my belt.

Based on the business experience I have, I figure I will be operating in the red for at least three years before I get to the break even point. By then I should have more referrals and a larger client base, which will alow me to increase my pricing to maximize my profits and possibly hire additional people.

I've spent alot of money on marketing, new equipment and music and I know it will take some time to see a return on my investment.

So if your willing to help me with my MC skills and how to deal with PITA people, then please feel free to give me advice. But if you want to focus on my pricing just don't bother posting because it's a waste of your and my time.
All too late.

Your claims now seem even more suspicious.

You work for $50 yet claim to charge $1,200 to your wedding clients.

As to any advise on improving your MC skills, video your performances, review the videos, list the things that need work, practice on improving them and attend workshops and/or join toastmasters.

Effectively dealing with PITA individuals, regardless of circumstance of environment, requires credibility, honesty, and ethics. Those are characteristics you either posses or not and they cannot be learned at a seminar.

15 years is a long time to have never developed a reliable skill set. :triconfused:

P.S. The reason they "micro manage" is because you have not established trust or credibility prior to that moment. Your pricing and the inferred value you establish, whether you like it or not, are key components in creating professional credibility and/or trust.
 
My understanding was that he felt $695 was a "lowball" price. Not a high end price that makes him sick...

No, if you go back and read it - what made him sick was that we can charge alot for a wedding - if you go back and look, one of his statements said:

I would have charged $300 to $350 to a stranger. This is a fair price to my customers and I make a decent profit as well. This wasn't a wedding! I don't low ball my pricing, if anything I lose more business to the low ballers out there than I'd like to admit. I have a DJ company in my area that does weddings for $695?? It makes me sick and I'm sure that's the feeling their customers have by the end of the night as well.


If what you say is right musicboy, why would the customers be upset if we 'low balled' them?

and then posts:

My starting price for a four hour standard wedding without all the bells and whistles starts at $1,200. I spend between 30 and 35 hours on a single wedding. This includes travel, meeting with clients several times, phone conversations, set up/breakdown, planning and performing for four hours.

This doesn't make sense to me. Why would someone that starts at 1200 for a wedding charge 50 / hr for a lead (aka: stranger) from a friend? Why would you also be obviously 'sick' about a 695 dollar wedding dj if you're in a range higher than others in your market - which to be honest, I (and others) highly doubt - being that you're just now establishing a new business.

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I am also establishing a new business, so I am willing to do a gig at a more affordable price to gain experience and get exposure.

Then why would you be priced above your competition (I have a DJ company in my area that does weddings for $695) by almost double ($1200)?

I agree with Rox for the advice. I shall speak no more of your pricing - although you brought it up, we didn't.
 
No, if you go back and read it - what made him sick was that we can charge alot for a wedding - if you go back and look, one of his statements said:




If what you say is right musicboy, why would the customers be upset if we 'low balled' them?

and then posts:



This doesn't make sense to me. Why would someone that starts at 1200 for a wedding charge 50 / hr for a lead (aka: stranger) from a friend? Why would you also be obviously 'sick' about a 695 dollar wedding dj if you're in a range higher than others in your market - which to be honest, I (and others) highly doubt - being that you're just now establishing a new business.

Re:

Then why would you be priced above your competition (I have a DJ company in my area that does weddings for $695) by almost double ($1200)?

I agree with Rox for the advice. I shall speak no more of your pricing - although you brought it up, we didn't.
Your wrong, it makes me sick that DJ's charge $695 for a wedding. It's way too low. New biz or not I'm not working 30 or more hours for $695. And the reason why the customer would be sick is because the DJ most likely sucked and showed up using an Ipod. Or some sh*t equipment with a junk lighting package.

You obviously didn't read my post that explains why I did a favor for my friend. It was not a stranger.

The good DJ's in my area are starting at about $1,400 for a wedding. So I'm priced slightly lower since I'm a new biz. I think thats fair. For a regular 4 hour B-Day party they start at $400 - $500. I'm priced just a little lower.

I'm not trying to deceive anyone. I'm just stating the facts. I feel like I need repeat and repeat myself over and over again.
 
Your wrong, it makes me sick that DJ's charge $695 for a wedding. It's way too low. New biz or not I'm not working 30 or more hours for $695. And the reason why the customer would be sick is because the DJ most likely sucked and showed up using an Ipod. Or some sh*t equipment with a junk lighting package.

You obviously didn't read my post that explains why I did a favor for my friend. It was not a stranger.

The good DJ's in my area are starting at about $1,400 for a wedding. So I'm priced slightly lower since I'm a new biz. I think thats fair. For a regular 4 hour B-Day party they start at $400 - $500. I'm priced just a little lower.

I'm not trying to deceive anyone. I'm just stating the facts. I feel like I need repeat and repeat myself over and over again.

No, you said a lead from a friend. That's a stranger. You did not say the party was for a friend. There's so many things that just don't make sense in your post. I also think if you look at my replies, I read your posts extensively.

I realize your new here but when you ask advice and you don't present all the facts that may affect our opinion, then you're opening yourself up to scenarios such as this one where we then question all the changing information - regardless of what it may entail. When you talk about a PITA person but then lay claim to 150.00 for a 3 hour show for a lead, y'er just askin' for us to jump all over it. Then it changed to a lead from your very best friend and now it was a party for a friend. It's ever evolving. If you can't give us solid information, we can't give you a solid opinion - and some will get frustrated (and leery) when you start changing all the info.

Your new here, we know absolutely nothing about you. When you ask an opinion, we're going to use all we know about scenarios using your input and provide an opinion based on that.
 
3 years is a long time to be in the red ,,,, ??? at those prices !!!!!

Not really, with all the new equipment I had to buy and my monthly expenses in new music and advertising, marketing material, insurance, not to mention the amount of time I put into the business. It will take a while to get out of the red. I'm not exactly doing a gig every week, maybe one or two a month (if I'm lucky)and the majority of them are small. I've only done two weddings which seem to be the big money makers. I hope that things will pick up soon, but if they don't it's going to take a while to see profits. I hope your right and it takes much less than three years. But I have to be realistic and not expect too much.
 
No, you said a lead from a friend. That's a stranger. You did not say the party was for a friend. There's so many things that just don't make sense in your post. I also think if you look at my replies, I read your posts extensively.

read post #65. I felt that I needed to explain things better than I did in my first post because of all the confusion. Like I said in post #65, I didn't realize I had to explain why I did the party for that price in such detail. But for some odd reason you guys are hell bent on thinking I charge every customer $50 per hour. Why would I do that?? $50.00 per hour isn't worth my time. And with the prep work involved and set up and break down of equipment, it's much less than $50 per hour. I make more than that at my day job. I love music and love to DJ, but I never would have started a business if I was going to charge those prices to everyone. This was a special circumstance.
 
No, you said a lead from a friend. That's a stranger. You did not say the party was for a friend. There's so many things that just don't make sense in your post. I also think if you look at my replies, I read your posts extensively.

I realize your new here but when you ask advice and you don't present all the facts that may affect our opinion, then you're opening yourself up to scenarios such as this one where we then question all the changing information - regardless of what it may entail. When you talk about a PITA person but then lay claim to 150.00 for a 3 hour show for a lead, y'er just askin' for us to jump all over it. Then it changed to a lead from your very best friend and now it was a party for a friend. It's ever evolving. If you can't give us solid information, we can't give you a solid opinion - and some will get frustrated (and leery) when you start changing all the info.

Your new here, we know absolutely nothing about you. When you ask an opinion, we're going to use all we know about scenarios using your input and provide an opinion based on that.

I am new here and my intention was not to deceive anyone. I trully didn't think you guys would be interested in reading a whole paragraph about my relationship with me friend and why I would give his friend such a low price. I trully didn't think my price had anything to do with why things didn't go well at the party.
 
New topic: Does anyone have any advice on how I should price my gigs? LMFAO Just kidding!

If you are charging $1200 starting price for 4 hour weddings, I wouldn't even be messing around with 100/hour birthday parties. Spend more of your time and resources to market to brides, and book more weddings!

If you do feel inclined to DJ birthday parties, etc...at least charge what the others in the area are charging, Better yet, charge a little more. :triwink: