Ok....
Here's something to chomp on... you and I have been DJ'n for about as long but, I believe I've been doing weddings longer.... but that's not the point...
I've booked weddings from anywhere between 4-6 hours and 9 times out of 10 the ones that have booked 6 hours typically tire out within 5 hours and most of the guests are gone in 4...
Now here's another consideration... you say something about selling a timeline.... are you even considering the photog or videographer in this time line??? Most want outta there as soon as the last formality is done.... you're not even starting them until around 8pm.... if I were a photographer I'd be pissed.....
Thats standard around here.
Supper is usually at roughly 6-7 pm. How can you do the formalities any sooner?
AND!
Normally the photographer already charges for the second location and they cover the cake cutting. Very rarely does the photographers stick around long enough for the dance.
The last wedding I did, was the first time I ever had a problem with a photographer.
The wedding party did not start til 10pm...and by 10:30 the photographer was trying to rush every formality planned within like 15 minutes.
So this is what we did...and it sucked horribly.
To save a few dollars on the photographer..they did 5 formalities in a row.
1) Garter Auction
2) Sister Auction
3) Ball and Chain Auction
4) Money Dance
5) Bouquest Toss
I at most personally prefer to do 2 formalities in a row. By the ball and chain auction..I could see people were like "WTF"...and I felt the same..but hey..I was paid to do their wishes that night..their night, not mine.
I gave advice on how the night runs smoother, and they agreed to it at the meeting. But that night, 4 out 5 things we discussed were changed. So I had to do this stuff on the fly.
And still managed to pull in my first bigger tip $150! WOOP WOOP
What do ya do?