The setting up part in the tux seems awkward and the damages also seem to fall into something Raskykat addressed on his thread but if you have insurance covering any damage to a facility you should be fine.
Load in place is mentioned I don't see the need to ask again where to load in![]()
I had to sign one of these for an event I'm doing in July. The big thing is when they mean professional attire they are meaning well dressed not in a tux. I'm quite sure slacks and a nice dress shirt would be fine just not shorts and T's etc etc. The biggest reason some of these places in Cali do this is to keep out your uncle George from DJing someones wedding. Its not an overly friendly way of doing things.
I'm also quite sure they have specific people they recommend and this just makes it a little harder to use someone else. Also on mine they wanted to charge the bride and groom 75 dollars for a table for me. I told them to tell them to go to hell I brind my own professional gear and table. And that my setup will probably be one of the more professional systems and setups they have had there. The funny part is I have worked at much nicer and more professional looking places than the place I will be. The Rivermill: http://www.therivermill.com
Now I have worked at a place that was very similar to this place and they where very strict. But I just remembered that as others have said I'm in there house and I'm working under there rules. Hey they even made me wear a walkie talkie with an ear piece until open dance started. But when all was said and done it was one of the nicest weddings we did that year. And the planner was a huge help. She would get all the folks for special dances for me. And just all around made the night for our bride and groom and for me. At the end of the night she came up to us and said she wished they we where doing the wedding they had the next day. The DJ was a friend of the family. That place was "The Reata": http://www.thereataoakdale.com/


Its such a minor thing Canute we can hold our ground and look like a real jerk or turn the other cheek until we have set policy to disallow such bylaws from our vendors.