Now on a more, realistic note....
A brief history of how I got to this board: I was invited to this board, as an alternative to the arrogance and the “Be-Es” that was going on at that time on another phorum.
Often times we forget that on the other side of a monitor, there are living beings with hopes, dreams and desires, fully capable of thinking and feeling, and wishing for a better world for themselves and their families. Sure everyone would like to afford the best gear, the best vehicles, and ultimately the best gigs; after all, if there is something we all have in common is the passion for the trade we very much love: Dee Jay.
Make no mistake brethren, but there will always be some one better than ourselves out there. My father, bless his soul, used to tell me: “Son, be careful out there in the world, lest one day you find another poppa” (meaning someone who would be capable of kicking my ash). By the same token there will be always some one less fortunate than ourselves also, with less talent, experience, charisma, opportunities, with less gear and who made us judges, or better yet, who appointed us to decide how to make use of their own time and resources? The big wigs? Those that -on the outside- are or believe they are untouchable, but when challenged with hardcore facts they opt to attack the person, instead of the ideas? Why? Because they lack arguments, so their defense mechanism finds no other alternative than to resort to the insults.
I have to say Tom, has presented what is to him the most valuable form of service he has to offer. And we can criticize his set of values, but at the end of the day, those will still be his values, and the way he is able to succeed in his market. Only Tom knows why that set of standards work for him, and Mr. Merry himself will never be able to touch that. Also, no one can’t take that away from him, and the fact that we may like it or agree/disagree with it, will not change the outcome of his way of doing business.
I offer a similar service and I add to my experience the fact that I am 100% Bilingual, in addition I understand a little bit of Portuguese and Italian, so I bring to that to the table, and if there are any disc jockeys in my market who can match that pound per pound, and charge less than I do, so be it. There are plenty of gigs to go around.
In addition to that, I would not say, the type of people who read, or buy from Craig list are undesirable clients. I buy from there; in fact I’ve found good deals for my friends and relatives buying vehicles that are advertised there. God forbid one of my clients from there, reads my post when I insult their intelligence or buying power.
My final thought: why do we need to denigrate others? Whether they are potential clients or fellow disc jockeys? Why do we have to go as far, as to elaborate a set up, that may include some one, life time savings or some one’s source of income? What have we have gained by doing so? Let’s be honest, and let’s be careful, lest we find our poppa out there.