you bring up a great point… what if they divorced… how would you know. What if they moved or bought a house shortly after the wedding.
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What if they didn't?
Sure, a few might not make it but they'll quickly get used to having to explain it.
My own cousin got married a few years ago, I saw her less than a year later and commented on the absence of her new husband.... how was I to know they had already split? But nobody ran me out of town with pitchforks. It happens.
The GOOD that can come from ongoing contact of some sort over the years outweighs the "what ifs", surely....?
Point was physical mailers are not effective, especially for wedding clients, who more often than not move after you’ve collected their address, which likely is a year before the wedding. The divorce part was just an added layerWhat if they didn't?
Sure, a few might not make it but they'll quickly get used to having to explain it.
My own cousin got married a few years ago, I saw her less than a year later and commented on the absence of her new husband.... how was I to know they had already split? But nobody ran me out of town with pitchforks. It happens.
The GOOD that can come from ongoing contact of some sort over the years outweighs the "what ifs", surely....?
What if they didn't?
Sure, a few might not make it but they'll quickly get used to having to explain it.
My own cousin got married a few years ago, I saw her less than a year later and commented on the absence of her new husband.... how was I to know they had already split? But nobody ran me out of town with pitchforks. It happens.
The GOOD that can come from ongoing contact of some sort over the years outweighs the "what ifs", surely....?
It's in my agreement that my couples agree that they are forbidden from divorcing in the first 24 months of their marriage no matter what...Choosing me as their DJ ensures they stay married at least 2 years
...I don't play around about it! 
I recommend all DJs put a "24 month No Divorce" clause in their agreements! 