This right here is gold.
Love your clients, and they will love you back. I too have historic clients that I now consider friends. I was invited to a 40th birthday of a past groom -
as a guest. At the party, I socialised with his sister (did her wedding) and his sister in law (did her wedding too). His brother was absent (did his wedding as well).
But Facebook aside, automated and
ongoing contact is the best way forward.
For those who know Scott Favor in Arizona, he is a great user of an old, stand-alone program that automatically sends basic emails. He emails EVERYONE. He sends anniversary messages, he sends reminders (usually to grooms) before their anniversary, he sends industry skites or wins to venues, photographers, officiants, etc as a way of basic networking. He even emails the ones that got away - if a bride DIDN'T book him, he sends a "all the best with your wedding this weekend" type of message the week of the booking, in a nice, non-aggressive way.
A bit of work to set up, but the potential is amazing. Follow up days after an event and getting a glowing review is nice, but it sorta stops there.
Why not be top of mind a year from now?
What about putting your name back into a venue's mind 3 years on, sending a topical note to a corporate customer on a somehow randomly related subject out of the blue long after the "glowing review"?
And the ones that never booked, the photographer you worked with just once, the couples that used that certain song that is suddenly in the spotlight again.
So many ways and reasons to reach out to both past clients, never were clients, and industry insiders. Takes some setting up but then it's automated for most of the work.
Easy right?