My family is big on Christmas. Growing up, I was a bit spoiled with toys, video games, and stuff in general at CHristmas time as a kid. We always went all out decorating the Condo we lived in...My mom would put up 3 christmas trees, and we would light up the porch with so many lights it was like staring at a Christmas Sun...practically need sun glasses to look at it LOL.
My Wife's family is much more scaled down.
When we go to my parents for Christmas, my brothers and sisters end up purchasing a lot of presents for us. I feel a bit ashamed if I don't purchase them presents. My son had 4 large gift bags full of presents coming home from Christmas in 2013. He received more presents from my parents and his uncles, and aunt than we gave him by far...My wife and I ended up with a lot of presents as well, and I felt bad only buying each of them literally 1 present. In 2014 and 2015 I joined all of them in the mass xmas present purchasing. ...This year, my family is real tight with money due to some things going on, so we all agreed on a $30 purchase per person limit. Hopefully everybody sticks to it this year.
At my parents house we have a big Christmas dinner with lots of appetizers, Salad, Ham, Turkey, other main courses, about 8 different sides, and multiple deserts to choose from. Going there for Xmas is easily a 7 to 8 hour affair, and my wife is ready to leave by 5 pm when we arrive around Noon. We are the first to leave to go home because my wife can't stand sitting in there so long. However my family sticks around until 10 or 11 pm at night before driving back home. It's an all day affair pretty much. They are Serious about Christmas.
With my Wife's family...We have a small Xmas dinner (Ham, and maybe 4 or 5 sides to choose from, and 1 pie to eat). Many less presents are exchanged. They do 1 present per person....sometimes 2. We have Dinner, and the whole process is maybe 2.5 to 3 hours TOPS.
Its been interesting seeing the differences in how families handle the holidays after becoming married.