I'll probably sleep all day on my birthday.

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If it's YOUR birthday, shouldn't your partner be the one playing? You should be free to play around. :)
I'm playing for about an hour and a half and I'm done. I've played for my birthday party before. I did one in the bar in Orange and had to play the whole time I was there. It was OK because I was getting paid to play at my own birthday party. Got to run and get a hair cut before the party. I will post pictures tomorrow and about something funny a DJ friend told me I should do on the side. Later.
 
I'm playing for about an hour and a half and I'm done. I've played for my birthday party before. I did one in the bar in Orange and had to play the whole time I was there. It was OK because I was getting paid to play at my own birthday party. Got to run and get a hair cut before the party. I will post pictures tomorrow and about something funny a DJ friend told me I should do on the side. Later.

You should be working the ladies, not the controls !!
 
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Right now we have a block party to do June 29th and after that I'm thinking of getting out. If I do I'm selling everything but my camera, laptop and 2 external HD's for 5k. I'm not playing at all. I'm too pissed off. I'll post more later.
 
Right now we have a block party to do June 29th and after that I'm thinking of getting out. If I do I'm selling everything but my camera, laptop and 2 external HD's for 5k. I'm not playing at all. I'm too pissed off. I'll post more later.

Look on the bright side, At least you didn't waste your time putting together one of those silly business plans.
 
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Hey no one told me there was another series of Days of Our Lives happening


I want some popcorn first....
 
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[QUOTE ]now we have a block party to do June 29th and after that I'm thinking of getting out[/QUOTE] Good Luck Mix!! What will be your next hobby??
 
now we have a block party to do June 29th and after that I'm thinking of getting out. Good Luck Mix!! What will be your next hobby??


Camp counselor, or perhaps the Boy Scouts... :p

Anybody wanna bet on whether those SS/Disability checks started rolling in...?

I got a beer, but no popcorn -- still want to hear the story though -- it's better than watching a movie, but not quite as cool as watching Justified :)
 
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[QUOTE ]now we have a block party to do June 29th and after that I'm thinking of getting out
Good Luck Mix!! What will be your next hobby??[/QUOTE]I just posted on FB about nice guys finishing last. If I do stay in business it won't be any more freebies. I have people I love very dearly and have done nice favors for them. After what happened last night I'm stopping that. I'm just tired of getting my ass kicked being a nice guy feeling sorry for people. Last night some people showed how much I really mean to them. Right now they can kiss my ass! If I do decide to get out I've already decided on what I will sell the gear for minus my laptop, camera, 2 HD's and CD duplicator. It will be cash and carry deal and not looking to sell separate pieces. Either you buy everything for the price I setup or you get nothing at all.
 
so you don't want to tell us what happened?
Since you asked I'll tell you. Not many people showed up but two people I expected to show up didn't. That broke my spirit. That was my best friend and his wife. Now I've done a bunch of things for them for free including last year in South Mountain Reservation their big blow up cookout fathers day weekend for family and friends. It's called friends and family day. We stay there all day in the heat or whatever for at least 7 hours. I looked at them as they are my own family. I know they said they had something else going on that day but at least they could have showed up for a few minutes. So right now I'm pissed, hurt and angry. We call each other brother. Not any more. They showed their true colors.

Here are some pictures from last years event we did for them for free.

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Since you asked I'll tell you. Not many people showed up but two people I expected to show up didn't. That broke my spirit. That was my best friend and his wife. Now I've done a bunch of things for them for free including last year in South Mountain Reservation their big blow up cookout fathers day weekend for family and friends. It's called friends and family day. We stay there all day in the heat or whatever for at least 7 hours. I looked at them as they are my own family. I know they said they had something else going on that day but at least they could have showed up for a few minutes. So right now I'm pissed, hurt and angry. We call each other brother. Not any more. They showed their true colors.

Here are some pictures from last years event we did for them for free.
Also let me say I had just bought that new setup. So I used my new setup to do this cookout for free. Now that's why I'm so upset. I turned my cell phone off today so if anybody called me they would only get my voice mail. I'm just pouting right now and until I hear their side I'm still going to be pissed off. That's if I even want to hear their side. It certainly won't be today!
 

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So right now I'm pissed, hurt and angry. We call each other brother. Not any more. They showed their true colors.


Gee, and you bust my chops for sometimes going on a rant/vent.

Heck, I thought my day was bad -- I had to haul logs, cut a couple acres of knee high length grass, get the buckets setup for the incoming storms, climb out on the roof and get attacked by bees.

I feel your pain... :laugh:
 
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Since you asked I'll tell you. Not many people showed up but two people I expected to show up didn't. That broke my spirit. That was my best friend and his wife. Now I've done a bunch of things for them for free including last year in South Mountain Reservation their big blow up cookout fathers day weekend for family and friends. It's called friends and family day. We stay there all day in the heat or whatever for at least 7 hours. I looked at them as they are my own family. I know they said they had something else going on that day but at least they could have showed up for a few minutes. So right now I'm pissed, hurt and angry. We call each other brother. Not any more. They showed their true colors.

Here are some pictures from last years event we did for them for free.

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Also let me say I had just bought that new setup. So I used my new setup to do this cookout for free. Now that's why I'm so upset. I turned my cell phone off today so if anybody called me they would only get my voice mail. I'm just pouting right now and until I hear their side I'm still going to be pissed off. That's if I even want to hear their side. It certainly won't be today!

Ok. How old are you? 15?
 
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So your friend didn't show up, he did say he had something else he was doing. Maybe he was already commited before you planned your party. Your 55, grow up and get over it. Only a child would throw a fit and say he ain't gonna play with toys anymore.

Just goes to prove that you are not serious about the business in any way, shape, or form.
 
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Sorry for the rant everyone. I was just upset for the moment and I don't think I'm ready to quit the business just yet. I needed to remember I just bought the lighted facade for $495.00 not too long ago. As for the business plan I'm looking into paid advertising next month. I really am just waiting for the changes and add ons to be put on the website. I'll keep you posted how things are going. I think I'm going to sign up for a paid listing to wedding.com. I get a lot of emails coming from them about prospective clients. Some are out of state and some are much closer. I did plan on buying the Polaroid tablet my partner saw that has a built in card reader. That way if I want to post pictures and video onto the tablet it will make it much easier to do so. All I'll need to do is use a media card and that will do it. Let me check on the website and see where I stand right now.

Oh yes Rick you said I get on your case about complaining. I got on your case because you said you have some bad and good years. I have some bad days. I don't look at the whole year as being bad. To me that's sad for someone to look at 1 whole year as being bad. Maybe a few days in a row might be bad but after a while I know things will get better.
 
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Oh yes Rick you said I get on your case about complaining. I got on your case because you said you have some bad and good years. I have some bad days. I don't look at the whole year as being bad. To me that's sad for someone to look at 1 whole year as being bad. Maybe a few days in a row might be bad but after a while I know things will get better.


Mix.

I've had lyme disease 3 times in the last 10 years, I have some sort of arthritis in my knees, the onset of Parkinsons, and skin cancer.

Do you think they will all go away tomorrow...? I'm sort of doubting that.


That's why they make rum, bourbon and beer :)
 
Mix.

I've had lyme disease 3 times in the last 10 years, I have some sort of arthritis in my knees, the onset of Parkinsons, and skin cancer.

Do you think they will all go away tomorrow...? I'm sort of doubting that.


That's why they make rum, bourbon and beer :)
Sorry you have so many different illnesses. I know others that have a lot of things wrong with them to and they are just happy and grateful to be still alive.
 
Sorry you have so many different illnesses. I know others that have a lot of things wrong with them to and they are just happy and grateful to be still alive.


Yeah, I can get a new disease tomorrow... :rolleyes:

That's why I mentioned you have good years, and bad years. I have no health insurance, just a couple doctors in the family far away -- you have to cure yourself. It can take a long time for your body to repair itself.

It's easy to get very cynical when you get hammered time and time again. That's why I drop a shot and a half of bourbon in my coffee -- it makes me happy :)


So, when I hear about some 55 year old complaining about his friend who had a prior commitment b i t ching , it's lost on me -- because it's piddly sh_t. This isn't middle school at our ages, and sometimes you need to look at the facts.
 
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Rick I saw you posted you can't get insurance. I'm not asking this to be funny. Is it due to either how much it would cost you or because you have so many illnesses that you can't get any one to give you insurance? I ask this because when my father died that's when I found out he didn't have insurance. My mother told me the cheapest insurance she could find for him was $150.00 a month. He died exactly 2 weeks after his 80th birthday. So when he took sick he was 78 years old. At that age that's why it cost so much.

Are those the reasons why you can't get insurance? I truly hope you will eventually get some.
 
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$150 is cheap. When I was laid off a number of years ago and Cobra ran out, it was costing me $1350 per month to cover me, my wife and son. And that was relatively basic coverage. Dropping to catastrophic coverage (a deductible > $2000 .. essentially paying for all normal care) would have been $850.