I get both you and especially DJCC on what he charged the client to do their wedding. My question comes up is how much will a parking fee for example take away from your profits? I understand for sure that parking fees at some parking lots are very high. Hell where I was born in Newark, NJ to park in downtown Newark in certain areas at certain times can cost $30.00. That's due to 2 spots that are in the downtown area. There's NJPAC and the Prudential Center. When they have events at either one of those spots the price for parking goes up.First of all, it doesn't matter what you think. When's the last time you planned a successful event? People who want to hire great entertainment understand that there may be additional costs involved. Go hire a well-known band and you may find that the price for their performance doesn't include a PA system, drums or staging.
There's a reason I sometimes show things like parking fees as a line item - because when their events are at certain venues, I need my clients to understand that I know what I'm doing. The DJ who throws out one price with no mention of details like parking probably doesn't have experience working at many city venues. More often than not, the load-in is brutal and parking is neither convenient nor cheap. Seeing as my clients sometimes make valet parking arrangements for all of their guests, they have the ability to include me in their tally, or they may opt to cover my parking expenses separately. It's up to them.
Trust me on this: The client that's spending big money for you to be at their event isn't worried about having to cover your parking. Fees are everywhere in the event planning and hospitality industries. By comparison, the amount I request for incidentals is pretty small.
With that being said I still say i just couldn't see myself separating a parking fee so the client can see how much it will cost me. Now if you're talking about what DJCC said he had to do to book that wedding 4 hours away one way, I certainly agree with him on that one. Just ask yourself this question. How often do we get a client like that in our lifetime as a DJ? I doubt it's once a month or hell even once a year.
Now I get that maybe you may not have the $30.00 to spend on parking the day of the gig. Yes that can be a bit much. My thing is if you're a single op and someone is willing to pay you say 1k, could you just eat that cost without having to show the client you have to pay to park? You still get to make $970.00 before any other expenses are coming out. Depending on how much your expenses are you just may need to show a client your expenses so they see that you're not just over charging them. That this is the reason for such a high price. That high price can depend on too what you think is high. Some may charge 1k on a regular bases. So to them that may not be a high fee for the service they provide.