The Best Wedding Ever.... here is how I will handle it...

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FWIW----

I just ordered a copy thru my local Full Service bookstore in Auburn Ca.

They charged me the "MSRP" but there will be no shipping charge AND they get a special deal thru Amazon where they get everything in 2 biz days. (If I ordered thru Amazon myself, they would have charged shipping becuz its under $25 at $24.95).

So, I'm supporting my local bookstore (Winston Smith Bookseller) AND I'm supporting PM.

Hopefully, he'll use the profits for the DP on su propia casa, y no mas renta!
 
Well, I finished reading Chapter 1. It deals with how a bride should consider the time / day of her reception. All of it is common sense. What bothers me though, is the repitition. He'll state his positition, then literally just a few paragraphs later - and even on the same page, IIRC - say "let's recap.... ya know what I just wrote, and you read 20 seconds ago? Well, it is still true"! :sqlaugh:
 
Chuck (and for those who don't know, Papa):

Unfortunately this has become a popular technique of reenforcement in some "training" circles. That is, assume that your audience cannot retain what you are saying.

He dies have the summary at the end of each chapter and that should be sufficient.
 
Chuck (and for those who don't know, Papa):

Unfortunately this has become a popular technique of reenforcement in some "training" circles. That is, assume that your audience cannot retain what you are saying.

He dies have the summary at the end of each chapter and that should be sufficient.

To me, it felt like he was saying "You're obviosuly an idiot that can't comprehend anything the first time I say it, no matter how simple, so let's read it again."
 
so it would be no more than a magazine article if the repeat button wasnt used over and over?


Well, for chapter 1, anyway..... Let's see what happens as we go along.
 
To me, it felt like he was saying "You're obviosuly an idiot that can't comprehend anything the first time I say it, no matter how simple, so let's read it again."


Papa: Check which printing you have. It might be the "special edition for blondes, only!" :D

My apologies to all the blondes out there...sure hope I don't get fired.. :sqwink:
 
Lets use some group think and make this happen But can us Canucks use our funny monopoly money. We dont have a stinkin dolla bill its a coin called a Loonie=1 Canadian dollar or 85 american cents. It would cost more to mail it here than the dollar paid lol. Unless of course we sent it to Kevin in Bellingham and he brought it up when we have lunch,

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That's the ONLY thing I'll be doing with it...bringing it up to you! Cuz I have my own copy and I ain't sharing with no one! LOL
 
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That's the ONLY thing I'll be doing with it...bringing it up to you! Cuz I have my own copy and I ain't sharing with no one! LOL

My point exactly.

When Tom Ohlendorf (GoodKnight) complained about Chapter 7, even though the review seemed very positive, I PM'ed him wanting to buy the book, AT HIS COST. He refused to part with it. Ironically.... he says the book is WORTHLESS, yet he doesn't want to sell it FOR THE PRICE HE PAID FOR IT.

then, I went to Amazon and looked at the reviews......ALL POSITIVE. Not one bit of bad press. A pretty high Amazon ranking too!

that is why I bought my OWN COPY and....like Dawg.... won't share with anybody (except perhaps my associate DJs in my company)!

Anyone who's too cheap to pay $25 for this book is an IDIOT and deserves to be shot...LOL

BTW: I've finished Chapter 8, I'm pretty impressed so far. Even the infamous Chapter Seven is pretty darned good, despite its controversial aspects.

I certainly don't agree with everything PM says. I'm not going to say its 100% perfect....for example, he criticizes DJs (like myself) who prefer to 'wing it'. I happen to like things spontaneous, and find that too much planning will bog down an event. As long as I know how to pronounce the important names, and have a general outline of the event written down, I can put on a very memorable and fun event. (But not everyone has my talent for Winging It, so I can understand PM's concern)

The stuff about FT vs. PT? Doesn't bother me.....I'm FT anyway.

I actually like it when people call during M-F and I'm the only one answering the phones personally. All the P/T jocks have answering machines.

Overall, this book is an indispensable part of ANY wedding DJ's library.

Not only that, it WILL become an important Bridal Reference Book, one that Brides will memorize and take to heart.

I can't wait until some bride calls and asks me one of the questions from PM's book, and I'll have the right answer for them!!!

The part of the book that seems overwhelming (the later chapters) deal with interactives for the various events.

Surprisingly, SOME of the things PM suggests (like changing the name of the Dollar/Money Dance to "Honeymoon Dance")....I'm already doing!

Actually, I'm really surprised how much this book has opened my eyes to the potential value of the W.E.D. Guild, in about 5 years from now (once this book has filtered and disseminated to thousands of savvy brides).

The book, in many ways, promotes the W.E.D. (Wedding Entertainment Director) as a premium product, a Lexus if you will.

But myself, being a Toyota Avalon......won't buy into this expensive guild until its a proven commodity.

However, the $25 for PM's book is well-spent, even for a "Toyota Avalon" like me! The book, containing PM's wisdom obtained over a 15 year career, is a proven commodity as far as I'm concerned.
 
Hmmm... interesting.. well I guess I am "willing" to pay the 25 dollars for the book, but if I could get it somewhere else for less then I am all for it. I personally dont know who Peter Merry is, so I don't have a problem with him. I went looking on Half.Com and even Ebay to see if the book was there, but apparently it is so good no one wants to part with it! No luck on either site.. so I may have to buy it from Amazon or something like that, unless someone has a copy that they want to sell. PM me if ya do..
Andrea
 
Hmmm... interesting.. well I guess I am "willing" to pay the 25 dollars for the book, but if I could get it somewhere else for less then I am all for it. I personally dont know who Peter Merry is, so I don't have a problem with him. I went looking on Half.Com and even Ebay to see if the book was there, but apparently it is so good no one wants to part with it! No luck on either site.. so I may have to buy it from Amazon or something like that, unless someone has a copy that they want to sell. PM me if ya do..
Andrea

No, it is just released so people aren't ready to part with it yet.

BTW, the next few chapters are better than the first one. But it is clear to us, but maybe not brides, that he clearly has an agenda of getting prices rasied - dramatically raised.
 
Anyone who's too cheap to pay $25 for this book is an IDIOT and deserves to be shot...LOL

If you buy thru a reputable book store, they will waive the Amazon shipping charges. (This is because they are buying hundreds of books thru Amazon.com, and pay a very reduced shipping rate).

My book store says "we don't make a profit" selling new paperbacks....they apparently do this (ordering thru Amazon) as a public service.

The only drawback to buying thru your friendly neighborhood book store, is you can't review the book at Amazon. (I could post a review, but I need to make a purchase direct from Amazon).

So I went to Merchant Circle and posted a review there:
http://www.merchantcircle.com/business/The.Best.Wedding.Reception.Ever.800-994-5338/review/list
I hope PM likes it!
 
OK, my disdain for PM aside, and putting aside his disdain for PT DJ's, this really isn't a bad book. As I knew I would, I learned some things from it.

He has some interesting spins and stories in it.

After reading it I don't think BRIDES will care one ( negative ) bit about his feelings about PT DJ's. I don't really think his comments will hurt or harm the PT DJ all that much. As much as he is biased against then in the book, he also gives ways for brides to figure out whether ANY DJ is the right DJ for the event.

In fact, in some ways, he is doing MANY of us a favor. He, sometimes clearly calls for brides to pay more to get better, and sometimes he just hints at it. So, if your are about making MORE MONEY, he really isn't hurting you at all.

The only thing is, YOU will need to dispel any of the negativity he associates with PT DJs. And, if you are a good DJ and salesperson, that really shouldn't be that much of an issue.

That doesn't mean I like the guy. :sqlaugh: