What is the word to describe someone who refuses to follow the simplest of instructions, instructions or requests for a compliance that has nothing to do with life or death, nothing stretching the basic freedoms, nothing that will cause physical, emotional, or other collateral damage?
In other words, if it isn't life or death, or usurping your freedom, or causing collateral damage, "shut up and do what you are told"?
Some people may conform under those conditions, I guess. Can't imagine anyone who thinks for themselves doing such a thing though.
Everyone seems to be dancing around the issue here. The real issue is that there are a few elitists who are trying to hijack the wedding market, and have chosen an us v. them approach, belittling and disregarding anyone who doesn't think as they do along the way. If you require evidence of this, there is a truckload of it. The response should not be surprising. Rarely does an effective leader rise from either extreme. It's just the nature of stuff.
Until both sides of this issue agree to acknowledge and debate the talking points of the other side, expect more of the same.

