Propositioned at a Bar???
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You guys are too funny. I agree with Steve. I get hit on all the time. Twice at a wedding last night. Clubs and bars when I was working them could count on atleast once a night.
Then again though if you ever look around a bar the majority are men. So I guess the odds were with me. Never responded though always said I had a boyfriend/husband whether I did or not. The ones that always surprise me are the ones in their early 20's.
Then again though if you ever look around a bar the majority are men. So I guess the odds were with me. Never responded though always said I had a boyfriend/husband whether I did or not. The ones that always surprise me are the ones in their early 20's.
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Look at the picture on the left. Would you proposition that?
Seriously, I have had some. One young guest at a wedding offered to crawl under the table and make me a happy man. To all I just show my wedding ring and say that I have a lifetime committment to my wife. Thank you, but no thank you.
Seriously, I have had some. One young guest at a wedding offered to crawl under the table and make me a happy man. To all I just show my wedding ring and say that I have a lifetime committment to my wife. Thank you, but no thank you.
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Hey Carolyn...
Are you doing anything later? How about a cup of coffee, then we could go see my etchings???
Are you doing anything later? How about a cup of coffee, then we could go see my etchings???
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Tyrone, as long as your buying we should invite Steve too. He gets hit on more than I do.
Smart arse!
Smart arse!
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Tyrone is kinda cute!
More to the point of the thread, getting hit on has a lot to do with how you present yourself.
A more closed, reserved personality is not going to receive nearly as many hits as a person who is open, friendly and flirtatious.
Carolyn,
It depends on the bar I think, most of the bars and the club I do females out number the males about 5 to 3
More to the point of the thread, getting hit on has a lot to do with how you present yourself.
A more closed, reserved personality is not going to receive nearly as many hits as a person who is open, friendly and flirtatious.
Carolyn,
It depends on the bar I think, most of the bars and the club I do females out number the males about 5 to 3
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Never really had anyone hit on me while I was DJ'ing, but I did numerous times while I was bartending.
One time I remember this really dark-skinned Italian girl who used to frequent one of the places where I was tending bar, came up to me and gave me the "note" with her phone number, etc. I mean this girl was gorgeous, not just pretty.
Everyone that saw her hand it off to me was asking me..."are you going to ask her out?"..
My response was, "Hell, no. I know what she's like when she's drunk and there was no way I would go out with her".
They all thought I was the one that was nuts, but weeks later one of the guys in the crowd of regulars dated her for a short time and he came up to me and told me that he "wished he had been as smart as me, because that girl was a basket case".
Pretty packages often have evil and scary things wrapped inside.
Kirby
One time I remember this really dark-skinned Italian girl who used to frequent one of the places where I was tending bar, came up to me and gave me the "note" with her phone number, etc. I mean this girl was gorgeous, not just pretty.
Everyone that saw her hand it off to me was asking me..."are you going to ask her out?"..
My response was, "Hell, no. I know what she's like when she's drunk and there was no way I would go out with her".
They all thought I was the one that was nuts, but weeks later one of the guys in the crowd of regulars dated her for a short time and he came up to me and told me that he "wished he had been as smart as me, because that girl was a basket case".
Pretty packages often have evil and scary things wrapped inside.
Kirby
I met my ex-wife while I was DJing in bars many years ago...
Say no more, say no more... :tangry:
Say no more, say no more... :tangry:
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Kirby Ball
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Oh, this is getting scary:sqerr: ...so did I....
she was one of the waitresses.I hear ya brother, glad I'm away from that!
Kirby
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I found it happened to me at private events more than at clubs. The majority of the time, it would happen at Frat/Sorority banquets (can you say coeds, lol). Although it was hard, I also turned it down, simply because I did not want to get the reputation being a guy who scored at every event.
I think I met both your ex wives while DJing in bars LOL
Alas Jeff, you wouldn't have been the ONLY one!! :sqerr:
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Kirby Ball
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I think I met both your ex wives while DJing in bars LOL
Note to self: Send sympathy card to Jeff!
Kirby
I think this is how I met the majority of women I've been dating, LOL
Last one was ex girlfriend of 8 years.
I've even been propositioned once by a woman that my DJ company hired on for training!
And let's not forget the usual Swingers club function I do once a month. I get asked to go upstairs by a few different people each night.
God, I love this business. We get paid for this?
Norbert
DCS Music Services
Playing Dance Music that MOVES you!
Last one was ex girlfriend of 8 years.
I've even been propositioned once by a woman that my DJ company hired on for training!
And let's not forget the usual Swingers club function I do once a month. I get asked to go upstairs by a few different people each night.
God, I love this business. We get paid for this?
Norbert
DCS Music Services
Playing Dance Music that MOVES you!
So, did you "hook up" with her??? Did she spin your disc?
Nope, I was still hooked up with the ex girlfriend at the time. It's too bad. She was a really hot latina with a J-LO ass! I would have loved to have spun those twin tops!
Virtually every time I host karaoke, rather than DJ. With karaoke, there's no booth and you work in front of the equipment to stay accessible to the crowd- no protection. I've seen me in daylight and figure dim bar light and booze to be the cause. Though I mostly ignored it, I have ended up dating a regular or two- but never took advantage on a work night....
And Steve is right about the daddy complex- I get hits by women 25 years my junior ( I just turned 51)
And Steve is right about the daddy complex- I get hits by women 25 years my junior ( I just turned 51)