Sigh.

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Well, I guess the lady could not find anyone to work as cheaply as she wanted. She called back tonight while I was at work and asked me to call her tomorrow. She has more "questions".

I know for a fact that she contacted more than 1 DJ because when I called her back before I heard "It's one of the DJs you called, calling back."

So, thanks to Jon Tuck, and his newly acquired business savvy, I will do this party for much less than I will normally charge just to get the photos and video we need. That is, IF she hires me.
 
JTV, I think I need to whoop your butt! OK, not really, but OMG, what I am doing for this small event.....

They want a face to face meeting.

They WANTED to see my gear. I said no. I sent them a couple of links to see the Bose and my mixer.

They asked me to supply them a paper list of all of my songs.... I don't actually have one. I told them to go check my online database on DJEP.

And she wants to talk about how many photos and how much video we can take.....

ALL for $300.....

I swear, if I didn't need this event to help RetroDancePartyUSA.com for site content, I would not even consider this for 2 seconds.
 
Bill she wants a 5 hour party ... 6PM - 11PM....

To do the event I would have to schedule a personal or vacation day, which is how I do all of my Saturday events.... so for less than $300, I have to say "No Thanks".
Then her WANTS are incompatible with what you have available.

One power surge, and your entire fee is eaten in repair expenses.

$300 is not only insulting but unprofitable.
 
They want a face to face meeting.

I used to do face-to-face for parties other than mitzvahs and weddings but not anymore.

They WANTED to see my gear. I said no. I sent them a couple of links to see the Bose and my mixer.

I wouldn't have even done that.

They asked me to supply them a paper list of all of my songs.... I don't actually have one. I told them to go check my online database on DJEP.

I'd have done that.

And she wants to talk about how many photos and how much video we can take.....

"Look honey, you're getting a party worth over $800 for $300. I'll take all the photos and video I need."

I swear, if I didn't need this event to help RetroDancePartyUSA.com for site content, I would not even consider this for 2 seconds.

Chuck, you don't need this agrivation. Send them packing.
 
"Look honey, you're getting a party worth over $800 for $300. I'll take all the photos and video I need."

I swear, if I didn't need this event to help RetroDancePartyUSA.com for site content, I would not even consider this for 2 seconds.

Chuck, you don't need this agrivation. Send them packing.


No, I REALLY do need photos and video. I have nothing showing a retro style event for the site.
 
Sometimes you have to think outside the box.
Just like breakfast cereal. Everything outside the box is promises and platitudes. Inside, valueless calories and brief taste pleasure that eventually wind up in the toilet.

This is a big opportunity. .
YEP!.. It is certainly an opportunity to be taken advantage of and to have the cheapo expect free photography services. What will you do if she want copies of your photographic efforts, because clients like this always want everything for nothing and when you start down that path you have no basis to refuse.

ADDENDUM:
I read page two after posting the above and was not remotely surprised that this client requested a call back to demand more service for NO MORE compensation.

And if you think the referrals you generate from this event will garner anything other than more "I only have $300 but will let you take pictures and video which you have to give me copies of " events, than you are delusional. Everyone there will know exactly what you charged if you place so little value on it.
 
No, I REALLY do need photos and video. I have nothing showing a retro style event for the site.

Fine, wait for the next one. Imagine if the first dollar bill on your barbecue joint's wall was the one someone changed for bus fare. :sqrolleyes:

There's no honor in it.


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Chuck I may have to concede here but after telling the lady pretty much what Thomas just said. Rocky makes a valid point. I had an idea that was worth considering. She is now running the show even the new JTV can take only so much. Playher game a little longer if you choose I will understand either way. But do whichever with class and conviction. What are you truly getting out of it for your efforts? Lasting results? Even 5,000 hours of film can be garbage.The perfect shot doesnt happen everyday. these are additional risks for you to consider.
My thoughts originally were a not for profit effort but a long term gain. Only you can decide if it will be worth it to you in the end. Keep me posted. If you wanna talk name the time pal.
 
Rocky thanks for always knowing the right answers. One day when I grow up I want to be just like you.
Oh yeah!
I was once upon a time.........................................
 
Rocky...One day when I grow up I want to be just like you.
Then you will need several things:

1) A much bigger crank.
2) A partial lobotomy.
3) A keen awareness that no teacher is greater than experience.
4) Did I mention you probably need a bigger crank?
5) Understanding that no amount of 6 1/2" drivers will ever sufficiently produce frequencies that resemble BASS produced by SUB WOOFERS. (I think you may have lernded dat alraidy)

To be continued...
 
OK, so I booked it, and let's just say I was TOTALLY caught by surprise. Turns out these folks are Indian. "Bonnie" is really "Vani".

This is a dual birthday party. She turns 40 and he turns 50 just a few days apart, so they are calling it a "90th" birthday party.

We met for 30 minutes.... The venue is less than a mile from my home, and less than a mile from their home..... and almost all the people invited are from their neighborhood.... so that is nice... all people VERY local to me. And their neighborhood is $500 - $700K homes... so nice demographics. I also made sure that they know that NOBODY will ever get that price from me again, so don't quote it to anybody at all. This is a one time deal.

They want pretty much all 70s - late 80's music.... but no disco or country unless requested. They also don't expect people to dance a lot because they want lots of classic rock. The guy - a 50 year old Indian man - wants Pink Floyd, Santana, Jimmy Buffet, Meatloaf, Stones..... and...... C & C Music Factory? :sqwink:

They also said that the party may not last the full time..... most of the guests will be 40 - 55 years old, and he was wondering if they can last that long! :sqlaugh:

As far as photos and video, they are OK with it as long as I make an announcement that I plan to use some of them on the website. All they wanted is for me to ask permission from folks. The whole party should only have 60 people so it isn't a huge event, but it is a way to get some much needed photos and video.
 
Ha now THAT explains it!!!! (Indian People)

I would do the party also Chuck, As having the site loaded with content will draw more full price bookings, rather than an empty site, pitching an idea...
 
Ha now THAT explains it!!!! (Indian People)

I would do the party also Chuck, As having the site loaded with content will draw more full price bookings, rather than an empty site, pitching an idea...

My MOM laughed at me today when I told her how little I was charging... but then I tried to explain about the website, and she can't comprehend what I am even talking about.
 
Papa, if you need some help that day, you're welcome to tele me. You mentioned about taking off work... If you need me to set up for you or something until you get there, holler at me.

--Will

That's a nice offer Will... I'm not getting paid much but would happily share to have help and company.
 
Papa I know how to help allow me to phone.PM me the number and times. Trust me friend. This is so cool. I am glad you stuck it out.You might b surprised how the disco might end up working amidst the classic rock. Are these raised East Indians in the USA?
 
Papa I know how to help allow me to phone.PM me the number and times. Trust me friend. This is so cool. I am glad you stuck it out.You might b surprised how the disco might end up working amidst the classic rock. Are these raised East Indians in the USA?


Well they have said NO DISCO unless requested... I can handle that.

I have no idea.

This should go ok.