A hit and run!

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MIXMASTERMACHOM

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I had a job to do this past Thursday in the bar in Orange, NJ. My friend couldn't play this Thursday because he had a 50th wedding anniversary to do. So i covered the bar for him. I didn't know he had came into the bar after doing the event. He texted me he was in the bar. He was sitting where i couldn't see him because the front door was blocking my view being open.

We talked briefly. We have a thing with each other. He says he has to come in to make sure i don't steal his job from him. That's funny because of 2 things. I don't screw my friends like that and he's been playing in the same bar for over 22 years.

He tells me that he just got some bad news. A lady that used to be a barmaid in the bar lost her husband. I finish that night and get the equipment home. That night is dedicated to the DJ playing there on Thursday to play classic soul. I did play quite a bit of that but the crowd that came in wanted to hear house music. So i had to please the crowd and i told the manager what happened. He didn't have a big issue with that once i explained what happened. It wasn't me doing what i wanted to do.

I get a call from the manager on Friday wanting to know if i would play in the bar that night. I was tired and hurting but i said yes. I really didn't want to do it but i friend wasn't feeling up to it since his friend had just died. The barmaid that was there that night said i did a better job then the last time i was there despite how i told her you couldn't tell i didn't feel like playing.

What made it even tougher was a bunch of drunks wanting me to play their song next which meant i had to keep changing sets as i was in a grove. Not too big a deal because i knew what to do and when. I'm on a stage and had to remind them to watch out bumping against the table i was playing on.

Now onto what happened as i was leaving the bar loading up. I was in the bar getting ready to move the gear out of the bar. I was double parked and had the doors open on the van. All of a sudden the guy outside that works in the bar tells me someone just hit my van and kept going. He stopped to wait for the light to change and then kept going. I wasn't going to run to the light and confront the driver who had just hit my van.

The van is a mess right now but at least i wasn't hurt and the van can be fixed. This is the second time this van has been hit. In August someone hit me in the back while i was driving. So i'm having bad luck with vans lately. The last one i had got hit twice too. The first time in the rear and then by someone in a stolen rent a car while it was parked. I had to buy a chain with a lock to try to keep the passenger side door from opening up. Called the insurance company and just waiting to see what they will have to say. I called the police and will pick up the police report when it is available. The really bad part on top of that is that on Tuesday I'm starting my vacation from my day job. Here is a picture of the damage.
 

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Sorry to hear about your van. You see MixMasterMachoMachoMan, this what I tried explaining to you in other passed posts. You take these low paying gigs at bars. End up bringing your system out for pennies, sustaining significant damage to your van. I bet you only have liability insurance on it. Bad decision making will only cost you money down the road.
 
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Sounds to me like it was your "friend" that hit you because you took a gig from a place that he asked you to fill in at.

If I asked someone to fill in for me, and then find out that the person is now playing there the next night, I would not be giving that person any more gigs. They are obviously passing their number around at my gigs.

Wouldn't hit them with my car, but they'd get no more business from me.

If I was filling in for someone, the manager would not have my number, they'd have my freind's. If the manager asked me about another night, I'd tell him to ask my friend first.
 
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Mix, glad your not hurt, your post are are my morning entertainment.

Now wasn't that van already damaged from a previous rear end collision ?
 
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Sounds to me like it was your "friend" that hit you because you took a gig from a place that he asked you to fill in at.

If I asked someone to fill in for me, and then find out that the person is now playing there the next night, I would not be giving that person any more gigs. They are obviously passing their number around at my gigs.

Wouldn't hit them with my car, but they'd get no more business from me.

If I was filling in for someone, the manager would not have my number, they'd have my freind's. If the manager asked me about another night, I'd tell him to ask my friend first.
First of all my friend didn't want to play that night because of his friend dying. I've covered the bar before for both DJ's. I'm not there to take anybody's job. They have who they want and they are happy with their choices.

Just so you'll know my friend is the one that kept bugging the manager for me to be the one to come in and play when he can't be there. That's how much he likes what i do and trust that i will do a good job. He's not worried about me trying to take his bar gig away from me and like i said i would never do that to any of my DJ friends. Now if you're just another DJ and you don't look out and i can get in, then that's your AZZ!

tRUST ME HE HAS BEEN THERE LIKE I SAID FOR OVER 22 YEARS. He isn't going anywhere unless he retires or dies. Which ever comes first. I'm not threat to him and he's not a threat to me. We've both have given gigs to each other that we can't do for one reason or another. If he's booked I'm one of the first DJ's he'll consider giving me the nod and I'll do the same.

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Mix, glad your not hurt, your post are are my morning entertainment.

Now wasn't that van already damaged from a previous rear end collision ?
Yes. I stated that when making this thread. So now all i can do is get into the solution mode. Since neither one of the accidents i was at fault it should be paid for. I'll take that money, get another door or 2 and another bumper from the junk yard and keep it moving. That van runs too good just to get rid of it. I haven't had any major issues with this van other then having to get the brakes done and replacing a tire. It's a 2000 and still has less then 100,000 miles on it.
 
Now if you're just another DJ and you don't look out and i can get in, then that's your AZZ!

Based on your reputation of bringing people out to the clubs and your ultra-conservative club selection criteria, I doubt that many DJs are worried about their azz.
 
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Maybe you shouldnt have been illegally parked in the first place
 
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Based on your reputation of bringing people out to the clubs and your ultra-conservative club selection criteria, I doubt that many DJs are worried about their azz.
No it's about being safe. Meaning a safe place to play at and not some where that the crowd wants you to play only today's hip hop and r & b all night long. Like I've stated before those places in most cases only last but so long. They eventually will attract around here drug dealing gang bangers. Then that brings in the hoochie mommas chasing after the drug dealers money. In such situations people wind up getting beat up, robbed, stabbed or shot.

As for me being able to bring in a crowd you're thinking of equating me and my partner together. He's done things in the past that i had nothing to with other then just showing up. I would basically need a month with the owner/managers help to bring in a decent crowd to a place. Some expect you to do all the work promoting the place to get people in there. I don't mind doing some of the work. I just refuse to do it all since i don't own the place. That would mean finding a place to be stable at instead of being all over every bar/club around trying to make it. Especially in the beginning.

I just refuse to play in just any old place to make some money. Been there, done that. Not any more. I'm too old today and don't have the patience for the drama for your mommas that are allowed to come in some places.
 
No it's about being safe. Meaning a safe place to play at and not some where that the crowd wants you to play only today's hip hop and r & b all night long. Like I've stated before those places in most cases only last but so long. They eventually will attract around here drug dealing gang bangers. Then that brings in the hoochie mommas chasing after the drug dealers money. In such situations people wind up getting beat up, robbed, stabbed or shot.

As for me being able to bring in a crowd you're thinking of equating me and my partner together. He's done things in the past that i had nothing to with other then just showing up. I would basically need a month with the owner/managers help to bring in a decent crowd to a place. Some expect you to do all the work promoting the place to get people in there. I don't mind doing some of the work. I just refuse to do it all since i don't own the place. That would mean finding a place to be stable at instead of being all over every bar/club around trying to make it. Especially in the beginning.

I just refuse to play in just any old place to make some money. Been there, done that. Not any more. I'm too old today and don't have the patience for the drama for your mommas that are allowed to come in some places.


What??:shrug:
 
B Sharp you're probably right about me getting a crowd to come into a place. It has to be the right place for people who know that i DJ to come to. They won't just come anywhere just because I'm DJing there. It's got to be a place where they will feel comfortable. Not a place with a bunch of 21 year olds coming to party or hang out in front of the place.

I have and have had places that would love to see me being their DJ but i won't go near some of those places because they just aren't secure places for even me being the DJ to be in.
 
Mix, glad you're not hurt. Disappointed at the obvious insecurity and animosity many people show you.

Keep in mind when you take bar gigs there is only one reason a bar exists - and that is to sell alcohol. People go their to drink. Many get drunk. Trouble surrounds the whole environment.

You need to go really far out of you way to protect yourself and your assets from damage. Typically - you should not be leaving a bar until the patrons are all gone unless you can exit through a protected exit at the rear of the building out of visibility, away from everyone else and their vehicles. The stage door exists for a reason.
 
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Mix, glad you're not hurt. Disappointed at the obvious insecurity and animosity many people show you.

Keep in mind when you take bar gigs there is only one reason a bar exists - and that is to sell alcohol. People go their to drink. Many get drunk. Trouble surrounds the whole environment.

You need to go really far out of you way to protect yourself and your assets from damage. Typically - you should not be leaving a bar until the patrons are all gone unless you can exit through a protected exit at the rear of the building out of visibility, away from everyone else and their vehicles. The stage door exists for a reason.
In this bar there is only one way in and one way out. Through the front door. I just hope to get my Eli Manning jersey autographed by him. A lady that says she's a stewardess on the Giants plane saw me with that jersey on this past Thursday and said she could get him to autograph it. I'll pick it up this Thursday.
 
Keep in mind when you take bar gigs there is only one reason a bar exists - and that is to sell alcohol. People go their to drink. Many get drunk. Trouble surrounds the whole environment.

You need to go really far out of you way to protect yourself and your assets from damage. Typically - you should not be leaving a bar until the patrons are all gone unless you can exit through a protected exit at the rear of the building out of visibility, away from everyone else and their vehicles. The stage door exists for a reason.

Exactly why I wont be found doing bar gigs. That AND the fact that they pay next to nothing.
 
. As for me being able to bring in a crowd you're thinking of equating me and my partner together.

I am "equating" you and your PARTNER together... because it's a PARTNERSHIP. You can't separate yourself from your partner's bad decisions. That's like saying that Hall & Oates wrote some great songs, but all of the cheesy videos weren't Hall's fault at all. Just Oates. News Flash: It's not just Hall. It's not just Oates. It's Hall & Oates.

I just hope to get my Eli Manning jersey autographed by him. A lady that says she's a stewardess on the Giants plane saw me with that jersey on this past Thursday and said she could get him to autograph it. I'll pick it up this Thursday.

I don't think you mentioned the jersey before. LOL! When you get your jersey back, if you get it back at all, how will you know that Eli Manning really signed it?
 
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Mix should take off both back doors and replace it with pipe and drape. Fawking hot dude!!

MixMasterMachoMachoTheEliManningJerseyMan. Mix tell the chick to take a phone photo of Manning signing the Jersey. A documented photo can increase the value of the Jersey down the road. Then you can sell it for more gear in 10 years.
 
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Mix should take off both back doors and replace it with pipe and drape. Fawking hot dude!!

MixMasterMachoMachoTheEliManningJerseyMan. Mix tell the chick to take a phone photo of Manning signing the Jersey. A documented photo can increase the value of the Jersey down the road. Then you can sell it for more gear in 10 years.

Or for some new doors for the van? :rolleyes: