The OP said "just becuase they are gay" Based on that comment, that is discrimination and the only reason behind my comment.
I just think there are so many other reasons to get out of gigs instead of just plain old being a homophobe.....I'm booked, I do not travel that far, will be out of town that weekend, gear has scheduled maintence that weekend, if it's an outdoors wedding just say you don't play outdoors. Its a ton of excuses that a dj should be able to pull out of his @$$ before using the clients sexual orientation as the reason they cannot perform at thier wedding.
My thoughts are if you advertise your business/service to the open public then your services should be available to the open public. If you are a Christian DJ then advertise yourself as one and I would think gay people would be smart enough to steer clear of your services.
You can't deny them service becuase they are gay and still label yourself a Christian, I mean isn't that passing judgement and a good christian never passes judgement (YEAH RIGHT!) Do you know how many gay people are in church choirs??? Me neither but I know its a large amount :triwink: If the pastor isn't stopping them from singing then you shouldn't stop them from having a nice reception.
For those who would turn down gay people: Do you research each couple and refuse the couples who have past domestic violence records or cheaters becuase you do not believe that mariage will last, no, you dont give a rats @s$ as long as they have the money to pay for your services.