You asked....
Question for ya... are you really doing 8 hour weddings????
Most in my area are looking for between 4-6 hours which is typical. So my packages start at 4 hours for just Receptions and 6 hours for Ceremony and Reception.... anything over that is billed at an hourly rate in addition to the package price.... and then there are the optional add-ons such as lighting, karaoke, etc...
I think you may be giving away the store as they say.
Yup..typically I am set up by 4-4:30. I am ready to play by 5pm (Cocktail Music *technically)....and by roughly 5:45 we start seeing our first guests, in which I greet and meet a few...and then roughly 6:15 or so I do the grand intro for the bride and groom.
Right after supper, we do a few kids songs, in which the bride and groom gets ready for their first dance...and I sell some raffle tickets at this time, if that was chosen for the garter/groom prize...
Right around 8-8:30 is typically the b and g's first dance..and then we do the other special dances. Try to have all the bouquet/garter/dollar dance wrapped up by 10-10:30 for the older guests who like to participate in those events. And play until Bride and Groom leaves for honeymoon, or til the closing.
I am not a fan of extra hours. I refuse to do that upsell. When I got married, I was irked that we had to pay an extra full hour, for an extra half hour of work. Personally I rather have been sold a smooth transition of the night instead of nickel and diming the rest.
So yes...an 8 hour day + for a wedding is very typical.
I have been very successful in this approach, and I do not plan to change it.
Now with the majestic wedding package..you can upgrade for the bigger show for $200....
or....
If my bride and groom is just looking for a 4 hour dance, I can drop $200.
But I only list this package, because I am good at selling the timeline of the night as opposed to just the dj hours. I have some cool techniques I use which enhances what I am promoting. It also gives me more professional leverage, which is a plus in this area.