Your average wedding reception is how long? Inspired by DJ Mango.

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probably 80% of ours are 6 hours, 15% 5 hours, and 5% 4 hours.

cocktail 1hr
intros, toasts, blessing, cake cutting 20-30 min
dinner 1.5-1.75 hours
dancing 3 hours.
 
For weddings a minimum of 4 hrs; Ceremony 1 hr (+ up to 1 hr for rehearsal free).
My theory is not to book for more hours than one needs, but when nearing the end of the last hour (4th), then consider O.T. by the hour. It works for me. And, since I am getting up in years I'd just as soon have the option to continue beyond the normal 4 hours.
Birthday and Retirement Parties; still want the 4-hr period but will settle for 3-hr at the same rate (which is lower than the Wedding Reception rate). Again, Overtime is an hour-by-hour decision.

I did an 80th Birthday party in early May that was scheduled for 5.5 hours but to my surprise they opted for a 1-hr O.T. extension. It was an outdoor party under a large tent and the weather wasn't bad at all. However, that extra hour nearly killed me...I didn't want to do it but when the guy comes up and flashes $100 bill in your face and says, how much for an hour of overtime...and would this do? Hard to say no. The birthday boy (80 yr) was still partying to the end. Before accepting the O.T. I polled the Client because it was a friend of the family who wanted to extend the party. There comment was..."if you've got the money from him, it's up to you." Needless-to-say, I played.
 
I just booked my first 7 hour reception! (well, ceremony & reception) - I've done 8 hour parties, but my longest wedding gig was six hours (till now!)
 
Saturday, it started at 8 and I was pulling into my driveway at 3:45 AM. Fun party and I have another one this Saturday as wll.
 
probably 80% of ours are 6 hours, 15% 5 hours, and 5% 4 hours.

cocktail 1hr
intros, toasts, blessing, cake cutting 20-30 min
dinner 1.5-1.75 hours
dancing 3 hours.


Interesting difference between us Scott.

I cannot tell you the last time I ever had a Dinner go into the 1 hour and a half mark and if it did I was not happy with whatever was going on to cause it. Most of my events are 5 and a half and that includes the wedding ceremony.
 
I'm not sure if it's the caterers or what, but it seems take that long....almost all of the time.
 
Cesar you do your thing in California where I cut my teeth in this industry maybe even a gig in your town or venues you have dreamed of playing at. In California I usually booked 3-5 hour weddings toasts dinner slide shows etc and maybe 1.5 hours of dancing. Quick in and out. Here we book minimum 99% of the time 6 hours and up to 10. Sometimes I get to spread my wings and play 4 hours of dancing.
 
the reception may be so short because they assume they are going to be stuck in traffic for 2 hours:)