Weddings WWYD: Bride has "You've Lost That Lovin' Feeling" as Must Play

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Is everyone for real? I have been involved with this skit for yrs. In fact it has been several since the last time It was done at one of my events. It really isnt close to a new thing.
 
I think DJ Young said it best...
you can find someone who will find offense in ANY song!

think about the most popular weddings songs...
even if they seem quite tame!

I think it's very good that you notice and care about these things
...how many times have we gotten a request for a "questionable" song for a father/daughter mother/son dance...
and had to call the b/g and tell them their mother/son song talks about " making love to you..."
 
...how many times have we gotten a request for a "questionable" song for a father/daughter mother/son dance...
and had to call the b/g and tell them their mother/son song talks about " making love to you..."
Usually when I play in Maine. But then again they know exactly what the song means.:sqerr:
 
Wasn't that skit one of the suggestions in PM's book on how to set yourself apart from the ordinary! (just Kidding).

The bit was way over done at weddings in the early and mid 90's, then dropped out for a long time it seems to be coming back (I just don't know why) Is the Top Gun movie being played on TV now every Friday night? I am starting to see it done on a regular basis by the "hip" college guys to a few ladies (at Karaoke), thank God I haven't had the bit requested for a wedding in a few years!
 
I was checking through the music requests for an upcoming wedding and saw "You've Lost That Lovin' Feeling" on the must play list. I'll share what I did later but what would you do?


No, the worst to me was *Total Eclipse of the Heart* by the Dan Band..Lots of F** in it...You've lost is a piece of cake...
 
No, the worst to me was *Total Eclipse of the Heart* by the Dan Band..Lots of F** in it...You've lost is a piece of cake...
Don't be dissing the Dan Band.:sqwink: That is one of the most refreshing f@#$ing acts I've seen in a long time. I would love to see them live and I'd love to use that song his way at any wedding.

I was doing a 30th birthday party and a group of guys asked if I had it. I was able to stream the video and play the audio off of youtube. What a hit.
 
Actually had a Naval aviator as a groom and they wanted it as a joke. I got a chair and had the Bride sit in it and gathered the guys aound her.

Nextgen knows! It's an 80's fly-buy thing, "Top Gun" came out in the 80's and Tom Cruise , et. al. do a similar thing in a bar.
 
I would be shocked that anybody that puts that song as a must play doesn't know some of the words....or cares....the name of the song is "you've lost that lovin' feeling", for god's sake. What else could she think the song's lyrics are about?

It's not like Whitney Houston's "I will always love you" that some people might mistake the meaning and might be embarassed afterwards.

But thinking you should let someone know about the words in that song is like letting someone know that "runaround sue" isn't about a girl that jogs or that "baby got back" is really about the shape of a girl's butt.

I would be concerned that the client may feel that I think they are a complete idiot.

What would I do?
Play it and assume some guys are going to sing it around the bride and assume NO ONE will be suprised ....or shocked...by the words.
 
Stupid Trivia Time....

Did you know that radio jocks of the time would actually refuse to play anything by the Righteous Brothers?

Why? Because they thought they were black.

Please list your source. The is the first time I've heard of this.
 
What does it matter? She requested it.

It's a great song. I've played it at gigs for years. For someone at the gig to be too concerned about the lyrics, they need to get over it. There are far worse songs to play.

For years we all played "Saving all my love for you" by Whitney Houston. Have you listened to what she's actually saying?
 
Stupid Trivia Time....

Did you know that radio jocks of the time would actually refuse to play anything by the Rightous Brothers?


Why? Because they thought they were black.

Where was this at? The jocks? I didn't think jocks had any choice...unless it was during the payola days of the late 1950s.
 
What does it matter? She requested it.

It's a great song. I've played it at gigs for years. For someone at the gig to be too concerned about the lyrics, they need to get over it. There are far worse songs to play.
No need to get to defensive, Tom has left the building. Now we can say what we really think.

If I were a bride and some self righteous bible thumping DJ questioned my song choices I'd slap him upside his head and make sure the only DJing he was doing was Karaoke at the local Howard Johnsons. Of course I'm not a bride, only a bridesmaid and this is only my opinion.:sqwink:
 
Please list your source. The is the first time I've heard of this.

Awww man now I have to dig.... it is something I had heard years ago.... may be complete bunk but it was said with such athority. I'm pretty sure I had heard this on one of those VH1 history programs.... maybe it wasn't the Righteous Brothers but I could have sworn it was them... I'll dig some more and see if I can dig it out.... it was a long time ago that I had heard this.
 
Well I had heard something to that tune Joke but dont recall where. Seems my father told me the story. I do know that Buddy Holly was invited to perform at the Apollo cause the promoters thought he was black.
 
Well I had heard something to that tune Joke but dont recall where. Seems my father told me the story. I do know that Buddy Holly was invited to perform at the Apollo cause the promoters thought he was black.

I know I heard something about this too... I'm gonna have to do some digging or it will just drive me nutz... Might not have been the Righteous Brothers... but, it was certainly some one from that time frame.