It's fair to assume many, especially someone of my age, are unfamiliar with this song and type of music... But here is a little known fact about me.
When I started getting into djing in the early 2000's, my focus was primarily on nightlife... not private events. I was extremely lucky to be part of a dj company where I happened to be trained and work alongside (for nearly a decade) by one of the very best House DJ's in the NJ nightlife scene of the 90's and 2000's. As a result, I was also given opportunities to often play alongside with him or other nightlife DJ's he would network with. Often when I was djing in a nightclub atmosphere I or the other dj I was playing with that night would regularly incorporate Follow Me in our sets along with other anthems of the time period (I personally loved "Work It To The Bone", "Sume Sigh Say", & "Women Beat their Men" from the time period of Follow Me... but my personal favorites, likely given my age, were the 2000's vocal house classics). So yes, while I have not lived it first hand in the 90's...I am well versed and can go fairly deep into this genre/time period of house music if needed (especially for someone who was just over 5 yrs old when these songs came out).
So while I know the power of this song and agree it was a common club song... it's now 30+ years later, and this song has faded from the mainstream and generally appeals to select crowds. You're typically incorporating it for 2 groups of clients. One as you mentioned would be more of a cultural group, whereas the 2nd would be the clubheads who frequented the nightlife scene in the 90's and early-mid 2000's. The first group has Follow Me engrained into their culture and will continue to be incorporated for some time until it isn't, just like any other culture does. That 2nd group though is way past the age of having weddings, so unless you're throwing a 50th birthday party for a group that was very much a part of that era's house scene... you're just not using that song like one used to. Even songs like "There's a Stranger In My House", "My Love is Your Love", Veronica's "Release Me", or "Final Chapter (Mike Macaluso),... those used to be anthems in the nightlife around here and were virtually played at all the trendy NJ/NYC weddings in the 2000's and even early 2010's. Are they still played today... yes but rarely, and there are only a small sample of dj's that know it well enough to create a vibe that reflects "the classics" as those generations know it. Same thing with freestyle music, and the deeper Studio 54 music, which have slowly faded from the mainstream and fallen more into the niche category of music.
This is why I called this and these types of songs a niche category... as much as I love the music... they're simply not songs that appeal to the masses anymore.