Those weddings that they typically get are likely between $150-$500k. I know a few of those $15k+ photogs and they view $100k weddings as average. In Jersey it’s honestly getting hard to do a wedding for 150 guests at under $100k. I throw 150 guests out there cause that’s the minimum most venues want for a Saturday peak season. You have to go weekday, Sunday, or winter to get it for a lower minimum or discounted pricing.
It's crazy because last Saturday I did a wedding with 181 guests in North East, MD.
The Venue was $5,000 for the day.
They had a Buffet style dinner, and they had NO MEAT at all. It was all pastas and a Cheese Lasagna. I was surprised. Never seen that. They had 2 pastas, a cheese Lasagna, Fresh Mozzerella and Tomato, and a big giant bowl of Caesar salad. NO BREAD! It was also a DRY WEDDING. No Alcohol. To my surprise people danced to the end still! The group was Christian. Perhaps the couple were Vegan. They didn't tell me. They went out and got two 30 piece nuggets from Chic Fila for the little kids, and it was all gone by the time the kids got through the buffet line (
They made me make an announcement TWICE that the chic fila nuggets were not for Adults and for adults to please not take any of the nuggets! lol) There were no appetizers or even a cheese or fruit display put out during cocktail hour. They did not even have a cocktail hour. Just a 30 minute transition period from ceremony to reception.
Anyway, they brought in canned sodas and bottled water, and sparking water was available at the bar. People still tipped the bartender they had working the event, but it didn't look like she had more than $60 in her tip bowl. I was surprised people were even tipping her for opening up canned sodas or pouring sparking water, I guess people were being generous and nice.
I overheard someone say they fed everyone for about $15 per person, and spent around $120 on the sodas/water from Wal Mart. It was a local catering company.
They spent money on a sax player who played along with me. The Sax Player drove down from Brooklyn, NY, and he was lower priced than the Sax player I referred to them to who lived here in Maryland.
This was one of my higher paying bookings this year.
It's interesting to look at the wide range of wedding budgets occurring today.