I dont' think it's 'special' (as in much of a party) wihtout the dance lighting. I include it as a competitive advantage as many don't bother with lighting so it gets me dances.
Maybe I should make it a cheap add on, like $50. Then if they don't want it they won't be leery of calling me? Have to ponder that a bit.
I want fast, simple setups for everything. The less time spent moving/packing/setting up the better IMO. And no DMX is faster (fewer cables and stuff to carry if nothing else).
A couple of the better guys here have rolling cases that are their tables - roll in, open up and plug it in. Done. power and speaker wires, that's it. I have 2 amp cases, box of cords and such, bag with facade in it, and all that needs unpacked, assembled and plugged in. Saving 20 min (x2) per gig adds up to more time to surf the web...LOL
My idea for DMX at the wedding was making all my lights white for the first dance, parent dances, etc. Be able to call up her colors on some lights (washes) and turn off the rest. Then do sound active for dancing, or most of it. Might like to program something slow for slow dancing, kill the laser, etc.