Madness, sometimes simplicity is bestlook at google verses yahoo
Suggestions, try a popout menu to condense pages down, your mainpage is too wordy IMO with seperate paragraphs, you can condense to a few pages, such as the mission statement, etc, etc
...I know a cuople of horror stories...
I try to keep most demos short, I havent watched that one in a long time, I;d like to say its only 3 minutes.
In any event, I never had anyone say I saw you from your DJ video online. I have more people that view the top 200 songs than the video.

really liked the intro with Kickstart My Heart by Motley Crue (wouldn't have thought of that one).
Are all the photos of Previous Brides/Functions You were DJ & Photo?