No, you should just find a woman that doesn't base your entire relationship on a freaking Rock! I know people who spent way way more than they can afford on a Diamond Engagement Ring, and I will tell them that they were unfortunately brain washed into doing so, and buying that ring was stupid.
Large Diamond Jewelry is s scam. Big Waste of Money. Large advertisement campaigning is what made the Diamond Ring popular many decades ago for a man to give to a woman for weddings. Before the millions of dollars in advertising campaigns were put out there, Diamonds were considered a crappy rock. Knowing two craftsman jewelers when I was in the Gold Buying business, and they both told me it's a Huge marketing win for jewelry companies. Diamonds are way inflated in their actual value.
De Beers Marketing Campaign: The modern tradition of diamond engagement rings can largely be attributed to a highly successful marketing campaign by De Beers, a major diamond mining and trading company. In the 1930s, they launched the famous slogan "A Diamond is Forever," emphasizing the eternal nature of diamonds and linking them with romance and commitment. This campaign significantly boosted the demand for diamond rings.
And the 2nd reason why they are so popular in Western Culture:
Celebrity Endorsements: Celebrities, particularly those in the public eye, often wear extravagant diamond rings, which can influence trends and consumer preferences. When celebrities flaunt their diamond engagement rings, it can spark interest and desire among the general public, further contributing to the popularity of such rings.
So what major material item investment are women expected to pony up money for to enter into marriage with a man these days? We are in fact equal, correct?