I will simply disagree with you on that. That is slave/maser mentality, and it enables modern day serfdom.
That kind of mentality is exactly why we have .1% of the population on this planet controlling over 40% of the entire planet's wealth.
This is also why employers have had problems since the pandemic with hiring people, and so much job hopping. The younger workers have been demanding to be paid better, and I solute them for it. It took job hopping, and unwillingness to work by a whole generation of workers to finally move wages up a couple notches the last 2.5 years.
Gig Pigs take advantage of a lot of DJs out there because they know the DJ needs the work/date filled so they will say "I'm paying $350" or "The event pays $350" and you either accept it, or don't accept it and they move onto the next DJ. I'm not okay with a company charging $1,000 and only paying the DJ $350.
There is actually a "multi op" in my area that charges around $1,200 for weddings, and pays their DJs 33% so the DJ usually get's $350 to $400, maybe $450 on most events. From what I understand, they have lost a lot of DJs in the last few years who wised up and simply moved on.
You might say "Well life can't be fair". I say Bull Shit. Why can't it be fair? Business owners should be committed to treating the people who work with or for them fairly. YOu know the old saying "Treat others the way you want to be treated!" ...Well that hasn't been practiced for very many decades by most employers, and business owners in terms of their labor. There was once a time when it was practiced. Probably the 1950s when company owners only earned around 4X to 5X what their average employees made annually. Now we have companies where CEOs and Owners make 2,000X what their employees make which isn't right. That is called Greed. Plain and simple.
As you may know, I did a number of sub-contract gigs with a guy that's local. During one of my conversations he was bragging "I try to pay 1/3 to my subs." and it rubbed me the wrong way (like what you're talking about) however, it looks more like he was paying me 70%-80% of the take, which I think is a more fair split. Of course, this guy is a bottom-feeder and it looks like his typical gig is maybe $750. I now have enough of my own work that I no longer take anything from him.