Perhaps you're right...
I will preface this by saying I CAN fast mix. Probably not as good as you or Taso because I don't practice it but I learned before beat counters, controllers, or TikTok were things. I choose not to. Not because I'm a crusty old DJ (maybe I am but that's not the reason) but because at least a dozen times a year in meetings I get asked if I "cut songs off" Or "just play the chorus". The majority of people here that book DJs for Weddings DON'T want fast mixing. When I run in to one that actually enjoys that I have several I can refer or send that will do it much better than me
You are giving the customer what they want...So am I. We both book people because of what we do
I took it easier this year. Personally I will do 52 bar gigs, same Friday night ones I have been doing 8 years except Covid Times and 35-40 private functions. My Daughter will do 25 or so more under our banner and we turned down probably close to 30
I'll never be the one to say you are wrong and I'll be the first to say maybe my area is the exception but what I do works and I work and earn A LOT more than the guys and gals out there fast mixing in my area
First, I don't claim to be good at quick mixing, at this point I would say that I'm capable. Wedding preferences could very well be different in Nova Scotia and I would have no insight into the bar scene as I only do weddings (and an occasional anniversary or Holiday Party).
I really don't sell my couples on quick mixing. in our initial conversation my focus is more on helping them achieve their vision for the day. Almost all of the weddings I am doing this year were certainly not booked because of quick mixing, it wasn't until October(ish) of last year that I simply started doing quick mixing. This might seem blasphemous but I didn't even ask couples if this is something that they wanted. I simply started incorporating it into my dance floor mix (after watching a lot of videos and a lot of practice and working with stems and buying those Bill Bass Wedding Packs).
After making the switch my dance floors are better. There is more energy and people stay on the floor longer. THAT is what my clients are looking for during the dancing portion of their reception, they want their guests to be on the dance floor having fun. It's not like people weren't dancing before I started quick mixing, but the energy is different. Even older guests are staying on the floor longer
No one has ever once asked if I just play choruses or if I only play parts of songs. In my initial discussions I talk about working with their playlist and reading the crowd. Only a few couples during our final consult before the wedding have gotten into the weeds with me about quick mixing and those clients get super excited about the idea.
I don't want to paint the picture that every wedding I do now is wall to wall, beginning to end, packed dance floors, but I've been doing this long enough to know that I am getting more out of my crowds now than I did before I started quick mixing.
I am curious, because maybe this isn't something that you're experiencing at your weddings, but at mine, over the past few years, I could see the change in crowd reaction to songs like Usher's Yeah (using simply as an example). People would still get excited but as the song played on the energy that used to carry over to the next song and sometimes even the song after that, wasn't really even fully carrying over to the end of Yeah. But once I switched it up I'm out before the energy wanes. Have you noticed any difference in wedding crowd dance floor energy in your neck of the woods?
And to kind of piggyback off Taso's recent post, I find I can play parts of songs that get the crowd revved up (like Higher by Creed - using his example) that would be floor killers at most weddings if the entire song played. Baby, One More Time gets a ripple of excitement when I mix into it from Party in the USA (mixing in from "when a Brittney song was on"). Three full minutes of that would be a floor killer. Last week the couple wanted me to play "Sweet Child of Mine". A full six minutes? No thanks! A minute and a half with the chorus? I had the crowd singing. and then I moved back into a 125ish BPM dance song. There is so much more you can do for a wedding crowd while quick mixing.
This isn't about "me" and what I want from the dance floor. This is about doing my best to fulfill my couple's expectations. And at least with the vast majority of couples I work with, one of their main objectives is to have a fun dance floor. Quick mixing is helping me do a better job of making that happen.