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MIXMASTERMACHOM

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Here it goes. I got a call today from a guy about doing a sweet 16. He got my business card from somewhere and decided to call me. He wasn't sure about the details and gave his ex wife my number. As it turns out she was the one paying to give her grand daughter this party. The party is set for March 30th in their backyard. That's if the weather is OK to do it. If not I said it was OK to reschedule the party. Just as long as we have that date open.The party is going to be around the corner from where I live at.

So I decided we could meet today. She liked that I said we could do the party. She said she talked to some other DJ's and they either said they don't do them or they would call her back. She would wind up calling them back and they said they can't do it. So i had to go to my partners house and get a copy of the contract because I no longer have it on my PC and my printer isn't working properly. We went to Staples to get some printed out. She called to see if I was going to still meet her today. I said yes. When we talked on the phone she quickly agreed to the price I quoted her. I decided the party is going to be from 6pm-10pm. So for 4 hours in the backyard I told her $400.00. I threw that in because I know that someone on here was going to ask that question.

Now we get there and we're talking to the lady. The question she had was did we have the right music for the party. I told her yes. She truly liked that the contract was very detailed. I told her that was to protect both parties. Now we meet the girl the party is for and we just had a simple question for her. What kind of music did she want? My partner mentioned a couple of names that hit the nail on the head. He mentioned Tu Chain and Lil Wayne.

Next comes down the mother of the girl who the party is for. I just happened to mention we would play only but a few songs to make the adults happy too. Not a bunch of old stuff but just some of the dance participation songs. Like the Wobble or Cha Cha Slide. Just so the adults don't feel left out too.

Now the mother mad a bad statement to me about how she didn't want the grand mother at the party. She was thinking she was going to have us play all this old music. That's not the case at all. That to me was a mess because she isn't paying for chit. The grand mother is footing the bill.

The mother asked us do we have up to date music? In other words at both our ages do we know what type of music to play for a sweet 16? I get it because sometimes that happens. They think a younger DJ would be a better fit. That's not the case at all.

Now just so you all will know we have another sweet 16 to do a week before that. We also have possibly a birthday party to do on March 8th and a reunion party in April. So things are picking up. It's not me just depending on the bar for work. I just had to share this story. It shows it's good to respond to a potential client in a timely manner. I believe that's what sold her on booking us to do this event. Also the old saying is true. Never judge a book by it's cover.
 
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Yes, every weekend I buy the music that people (From kids to adults) listen to and dance to.

If yiu expect to run a music based business it is imperative to keep up to date, just as I do with my one and only job.
 
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To answer your question (without addressing any of the other ISSUES in your post), Yes, I have up to date music. I subscribe to PrimeCuts. I get a cd every week with anywhere from 50 to 90 songs.
 
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To answer your question (without addressing any of the other ISSUES in your post), Yes, I have up to date music. I subscribe to PrimeCuts. I get a cd every week with anywhere from 50 to 90 songs.


Exactly the same response as [MENTION=1144]DJCC[/MENTION]. :)
 
I was just making this because it's funny how some people think that because you're an older DJ to them you won't know newer music. They tend to think you will only know what to play if it's oldies. Some don't realize you may know more, have better equipment and better skills then the younger DJ. I made it a different title for the thread.
 
Well Mix, here's the deal. You have stated several times how you hate to play the newer, current music (and that you have pirated music), so one would question if you have the new music.

If you want to only play the older stuff that's cool. But advertise yourself as a "retro" dj.

I know two guys in my area that don't have/play anything past 2000/2001. There is another dj here that is an "80's" dj, that is all he plays.

Be honest and true to your clients, don't try to bulls#^t your way through it.
 
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Well Mix, here's the deal. You have stated several times how you hate to play the newer, current music (and that you have pirated music), so one would question if you have the new music.

If you want to only play the older stuff that's cool. But advertise yourself as a "retro" dj.

I know two guys in my area that don't have/play anything past 2000/2001. There is another dj here that is an "80's" dj, that is all he plays.

Be honest and true to your clients, don't try to bulls#^t your way through it.
It's not an issue at all. We'll cover both events very well. I just think most of the stuff the kids listen to and want you to play is stupid and most of the artist have no real talent. Now with that said it's not about me and what I want to do. It's about what the client wants. There's a classic song by Two Tons Of Fun called Just Us. I hate that song. I never liked it when it first came out. My friends that know me not clients themselves can't understand why I don't like that song. I just don't. If it were up to me I would never play that song. It's not up to me. It's about what the people want. My job is to make a client and their guest happy.

I could give you plenty more examples of songs I hate to play but I play them. I don't hate all hip hop and r & b of today. Some songs are actually some of my all time favorites. Like R Kelly's Home Alone or Fat Man Scoop's Put Your Hands Up. One of the problems I have with today's music is that most of the artist sound like copy cats. It's hard to tell one from the other a lot of times. That's just how I feel. That has nothing to do with me working as a DJ at an event. It bores me to death but the main thing is it makes them happy and we get paid. There are also certain songs I've played so much that if I never play them again it would be OK. Is that reality? Certainly not but I'll put on my game face as long as I see it makes them happy.
 
Mix, you and I live in two different worlds.

One of my biggest requests has been Sweet Home Alabama.

Turn it up.
No we don't live in different worlds. It's just all in what a client wants that books you or me. Or for that matter anyone else on here. If a client wanted us to play Sweet Home Alabama then that's what they would get. If that's what their guest wanted they would get it. Just as long as the client gives the OK for us to take request.
 
I pick up the top 40 and the Hot 100 (idjPool), which covers most stuff for the gigs I do. If you are doing club like gigs, then you need a wider repertoire and the Primecuts/ERG/Top Hits/etc. make sense to invest in .. and for your house/EDM stuff, there are music subscriptions geared to those as well.
 
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If you're only real reason for posting that mini novel was to ask if we have up-to-date music...
the answer is, "of course we do".

If you posted all of that just to tell us that you met with a potential client....
that's great, we do that all of the time.

I hate to sound like a d*ck, Mix...
but I keep investing time into reading your stories,
only to realize I have no idea what you're talking about or where you're going with the whole thing.
Yes, we share experiences here. But we don't need to know what happened every moment of your day.

Less is more.
 
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The majority of my new music comes from Promo Only. I now get the PO POOL downloads but received the mainstream/urban/modern rock/country/ & club series CDs from 1992 until about 2 years ago. I was also lucky enough to pick up a couple of the 40 CD set Platinum series back in the day when they were available.

Just curious Mix, if Rick popped up at one of your bar gigs and wanted to hear "Sweet Home Alabama", would you have it ? And if you did, would you play it ?
 
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If you're only real reason for posting that mini novel was to ask if we have up-to-date music...
the answer is, "of course we do".

If you posted all of that just to tell us that you met with a potential client....
that's great, we do that all of the time.

I hate to sound like a d*ck, Mix...
but I keep investing time into reading your stories,
only to realize I have no idea what you're talking about or where you're going with the whole thing.
Yes, we share experiences here. But we don't need to know what happened every moment of your day.

Less is more.
The question I should have asked is how many times has someone looked at you and because of your age and thought you're to old to be the right DJ for the event they are having? For me it doesn't happen often but it does just like this case here.

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The majority of my new music comes from Promo Only. I now get the PO POOL downloads but received the mainstream/urban/modern rock/country/ & club series CDs from 1992 until about 2 years ago. I was also lucky enough to pick up a couple of the 40 CD set Platinum series back in the day when they were available.

Just curious Mix, if Rick popped up at one of your bar gigs and wanted to hear "Sweet Home Alabama", would you have it ? And if you did, would you play it ?
If it's right for the event and the client didn't mind me taking request, then fine. Not a problem. I wouldn't just play any song because someone requested it. It has to be the right song for the right event and fit at the right time.
 
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The question I should have asked is how many times has someone looked at you and because of your age and thought you're to old to be the right DJ for the event they are having?

Sometimes I worry I'm too young .. I have a 60th high school reunion this summer to do.
 
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The question I should have asked is how many times has someone looked at you and because of your age and thought you're to old to be the right DJ for the event they are having?

All the time. Ever since I hit 40.
Between weddings for 20-somethings, and school events for teens...I get "the look" all the time.
Funny thing is, when I started doing wedding in my teens,
I used to get "the look" from the older crowd who didn't think I was gonna play anything old!
I used to look at the bridesmaids and try to find the nice looking ones.
Now I'm checking out the mom's.
 
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No I still play the same old songs I bought when I started as a Dj

these 60x songs have been well worn over 35 years


have a nice day