The question hasn't really been meet vs. don't meet - it's about at what time in the process you are willing to give price - be it a starting point, estimate, or dead-on.
Pretty much everyone agrees that meeting clients face to face is preferred, but some prefer to qualify those prospects a little more prior to that initial meeting than others, and some prefer and are willing to do more "client education" than others at all parts of the process.
I'll never give a pricing quote without all of the information I need to do so, but I will give a price via email or phone once I have that info because I will utilize whatever means of communication we are talking about to gather the parts I need to fill in the blanks. And during this gathering process, there is typically some peripheral convo going on with value-building built-in.
Once that's done, a price is given. At that point, if they're scared off by the price - honestly - I let them go.
If they stick around say essentially say "Do tell me more..." and are still engaged, then it's time for a face-to-face consult to really get a feel for personalities involved, what kind of vibe they're looking for, what their vision is, etc.
The extent of "client education" that I do is simply in explaining to them the bullet-proof process I have for getting them from where they are through their desired wedding day without a hitch. As this is being explained/communicated to them, a bar is being set in their minds.
Given my closing ration for in-person consults, it's apparently a bar that is hard for other "comparably-priced" services to match.
Either that or they just have dirty teeth and smell funny.:trirolleyes: