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Scott Hanna

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Oct 25, 2006
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A very good friend of mine for 40+ years , who's also a DJ(semi-retired) asked me if he could book me as a standby for his nephew 's wedding. He was going to DJ it but his mother is not in great health and he wanted to have me be ready just in case. I said why don't you just enjoy your nephew's wedding and let me do it.
After discussing it with his wife, brother, and nephew(all have been friends too), they decided that was the way to go.
Besides being a great friend, we've sent business back and forth. He's sent much more business to me than the other way and would never take anything for it.
When he said just let me know how much he owes me, I said nothing. He says he's not letting me do it for free. I said it's too bad, that's the way it's going to be. His brother calls me later in the day and demands to pay. The nephew found out that Im not taking any money for it and now he's demanding to pay. 😁
The wedding isn't until November. I'm sure I haven't heard the last of it.
 
A very good friend of mine for 40+ years , who's also a DJ(semi-retired) asked me if he could book me as a standby for his nephew 's wedding. He was going to DJ it but his mother is not in great health and he wanted to have me be ready just in case. I said why don't you just enjoy your nephew's wedding and let me do it.
After discussing it with his wife, brother, and nephew(all have been friends too), they decided that was the way to go.
Besides being a great friend, we've sent business back and forth. He's sent much more business to me than the other way and would never take anything for it.
When he said just let me know how much he owes me, I said nothing. He says he's not letting me do it for free. I said it's too bad, that's the way it's going to be. His brother calls me later in the day and demands to pay. The nephew found out that Im not taking any money for it and now he's demanding to pay. 😁
The wedding isn't until November. I'm sure I haven't heard the last of it.

Just charge them $50 cash to cover your fuel costs, and ask them to make a donation of whatever amount they want to a charity or foundation that you care about!
 
Just take the $200.00 dollar tip! Not many can say that they have made great friendships over the years like yours Scott.
It pays to give and not ask for anything in return from true friends.
 
Be careful to not be too insistent on doing it for free. I know I can get offended when someone offers me a freebie and refuses to take any money. I'd probably just reply "I'd really like to do this for free for you guys, because of our great friendship but if you insist, just whatever amount you think is fine with me. I'm just honored that you'd ask me to be a part of this."
 
I get that you don't want any money for this gig. Since they are insisting you get paid something, just tell them to put something in an envelope and if you wish donate the money.