I would love to see you in action DJ God. I don't remember anytime someone at an event got on the mic and sang praises for the job I did or was doing at an event.
That's because you're focused on the wrong thing. You think your job is the music - but, that's already been created by someone else. Your TRUE JOB is the
guest experience. Lean to focus on that and people will start addressing you by name rather than simply: "DJ."
I've always done more than simply show-up and DJ.
I've done decades of corporate events (even as a DJ) and the work on those starts almost a year in advance, I'm at the planning committee meetings, I'm designing the stage layouts, and in the discussions about guest experience, decor, presentation, and venue coordination. I'm in the program booklet, and the venue knows exactly who I am because the whole lead up is a team approach. That's very different from a DJ just showing up the day of with a bunch of questions and list of immediate needs.
These days I do a lot of work in performing art centers, and with schools, etc. - and yes, the performers on stage with microphones personally acknowledge and thank me for the audio, lighting, and stage support. The conductor of the Symphony addresses me by name if he wants some house lighting during a number with audience participation (typical of Holiday Pops.)
The trouble with most mobile DJs is the vast distance between themselves and their own customers. By the time you show up at the venue the bride and her family have met multiple times with catering, the planner, the rental managers, and a whole slew of profesionals providing a much higher level of customer servcie.
DJs struggle to come off as customer servcie oriented, I got a reception planning form recently from a DJ that was 33 pages long. (Mine is a single double sided page,) "More STUFF" is
not how to imporve the customer experience. For that, we have to develop skills and experiences that make us a reliable resource and then actually show up to be involved and recognized as a powerful resourse.