NO GAMES AT SWEET 16's!!!!!! These kids in their mind feel as if they're turning 21... and DO NOT like corniness. I HAVE NEVER done a single game or participation activity in 14 yrs of Sweet 16's. Every time I hear about a dj that does those things from a perspective client, it's in the negative sense. This is not a mitzvah, where most kids are just entering middle school from elementary school.. a Sweet 16 the kids are either sophomores or juniors and behave a lot differently.
Also.. unless she's latin... Sweet 16's DO NOT do shoe changing or crowning ceremony's. That is a Latin tradition for a Quincenera that sometimes is done in a latin Sweet 16 if she didn't do a quincenera. Normal Sweet 16's only do an intro, father daughter dance, maybe a toast by mom and/or dad, and maybe a candle lighting ceremony and singing happy birthday. Some clients of mine have chosen NO formalities except for happy birthday, and the night is just dinner and music... hence why music is so important.
The "WOW" factor from Sweet 16's comes from amazing music and extra like photobooths, lighting, decor, effects like co2 or black light, snapchat filters, video screens, etc.