They don't want to force it on her (we could just lock up the CDG's) because she's Japanese, and she caters to the older Japanese crowds that come in on her nights.
She's used every excuse in the book to not use a PC. I know for a fact she's PC literate, she uses one every day in her day job. She says its too hard, we even went as far as designing a special interface just for her (called ezmode) that's nothing more than dumb juke style (punch in the song #, it starts playing).
So with that story in mind, how do I go about changing her attitude?
Toq, not breaking here, but if you had made the question person/situation specific in the first place we could have avoided a few pages of crap....
Anyway, you might try inviting her in during the day, or going in on HER day (even better). Ask her for some sort of info regarding computers ( whether you need it or not ) that's NOT karaoke related. Get her to show you on the house PC. Then PATIENTLY and subtly try to get her into a session od PLAYING around with some of the effects and software...SLOWLY and SUBTLY. Leave any my way/your way adversarial stuff at the door. Just get her to PLAY with it. She might get a kick out of it. Do this more than once- NO PRESSURE.
If she's gonna switch, it's gonna be HER idea, with only the tiniest bit of guidance from you. You push, and she'll push back. If you don't, maybe she won't, and you may be surprised at the blending of the ways.
If she doesn't switch, she doesn't. You do your show for your patrons, she'll do hers. and let her be. Unless the owners have made you her boss, it ain't your gig. As for her giving "every reason in the book": whether you agree with them or not, they are HER reasons, and she should be shown the same respect that you would want.
On the other hand, Toq, thru all of our jabbing and goofing on each other, I have never even seriously suggested that YOU should be disc based just because I think it's better. I respect your dedication and love for this business and know you always give your best. That's the important thing. Maybe she should get the same. Her patrons are hers because they like the way SHE does it.....