I find this one really interesting.....
If you have seen my show before you would notice similaraties from week to week for example the garter and boquet are very similar every time....and I'm very good at it. I also use the same few songs off the start most of the time because it jump starts the floor.
Now I do personalize alot of stuff, do the research, and give them exactly what they ask for, but if you have seen me there are alot of points where you can guess what happens next. I certinaly don't spend the night calling them the happy couple or Bride and Groom.
I also have a referral rate of about 85%....
Does this make me cookie cutter or just good at knowing what a client wants
I try to give short descriptions in hopes that they make sense. But sometimes I might have to go into detail. Here's the long version:
Cookie cutter is for a DJ that is incapable of doing anything different - but I find the term applies to some venues more so than DJ's. I was at one venue that insisted that things happen in a certain order, despite their having hired the photographer for a short period of time. The venues 'time line' didn't take that into account. Despite sending the time line to all the vendors in advance for input the venue ignored it, and insisted on theirs instead. It meant that the couple didn't get some of the pictures they wanted because of the changes.
From a DJ's point of view:
In other words, if you insist upon doing the grand entrance into the first dance every single time regardless of what else is going on.
If you insist on always doing the toasts during dinner.
If you insist on always doing XYZ in exactly that order.
If you ALWAYS use the exact same 'routines'.
It's a mentality of 'because this is how we've always done it' without concern for the clients wishes, what works best for their event, or any other vendor's needs.
It's a 'But I ALWAYS do this routine' when asked why you're doing something.
It's a mindset of 'I don't care want the client wants' and generalities.
Like I said, the sure fire way of knowing if you're dealing with cookie cutter mentality is whether the DJ took the time to learn the bride and grooms names. Do you hear, 'We'll now watch the happy couple cut the cake!' or 'The bride will dance with her dad' or 'The groom will now share a dance with his mother'. What happened to these people's names? You just introduced them into the room. Do you not care enough about these people to even learn their names?
Because you have 'go to' items doesn't make you a 'cookie cutter' DJ. It's a lacksidaisical attitude that drives this. A 'one size fits all' assurance. A 'the last 100 weddings I did loved this routine'. It's a 'I've been doing this routine since 1990 and they STILL EAT IT UP!'. It's using the same Kenny G CD for dinner music that you did in 1989.
But if you notice that you are repeating a lot, I only recommend you examine WHY you repeat. Is it comfort? or are the clients similar? Are you trying to grow, expand and be more creative? Are you really taking the clients wants and needs into consideration or are you just going through the motions because it seems to work? In the case of the bouquet and garter, look for creative ways to 'spice it up' or put a 'twist' on things. The smallest of changes can make for some of the best moments.
If nothing else, video tape your weddings and review. If you can't tell the weddings apart you may be on a slippery slope. The nice thing about cookie cutter DJ's is that if they realize it and they really care about what they do and their clients - they work very hard to change their behaviors in a very short period of time. The fact you had to ask yourself that is insight and shows a dedication to your craft. Shoot video, watch it, and review. Ask those you know and trust to review the video and provide feedback as well. Learn from it and grow.
And I want to point something out - if you 'sell' a certain type of show - for example there is a DJ that does blue humor at weddings, is known for it, and actually sells his 'routine' as a part of what he is and does. He's a cookie cutter DJ, but it doesn't matter. He's selling that routine to his clients. Cookie cutter isn't always a 'bad' thing - it's just a lack of personal growth and/or personalization for the client.
I hope this makes sense. You see, the terms I used, can be good or bad - it all depends on the person. Being open minded enough to accept that some people WANT an LCD DJ because it represents the bare minimum at a minimal price or WANT a Cookie Cutter DJ because he represents a 'routine' that they want. I choose not to operate that way, but it doesn't mean they are 'right or wrong'.
The only thing two things I believe applies to ALL DJ's is that they should learn their client's names (and use them) and care enough about them to give them your best show possible. They are paying you good money and you should care enough about being hired that you should take the time to learn their names and how to pronounce them correctly. You should take pride in your work.