I suggest games/icebreakers quite often...I would agree to a point that you can be successful by doing them/not doing them but if you get more referrals when you DO do them, couldn't that be interpreted as it being MORE successful by doing them?
I will probably be doing the musical chairs/scavenger hunt game at about 3-4 of my weddings this year. For families/crowds that may be more of the non-dancing type of more of a challenge to get out on the floor, they can really do the job in breaking the ice and getting everyone to let their guard down. I have also found it to be VERY successful when doing weddings where the bride/groom are different nationalities. (last year I had a wedding where groom's side was korean and bride's side was chinese...worked like a charm!)
And of course, I can't remember the last time I DIDN'T do a snowball dance at a wedding. I merely offer the suggestions - making sure that they know that I do not come into it with an agenda - and they pick and choose what they want to do and 99.9% of the time, they go with a snowball. I love it!
Games do not have to be cheesy at all...it's all in the presentation.
I will probably be doing the musical chairs/scavenger hunt game at about 3-4 of my weddings this year. For families/crowds that may be more of the non-dancing type of more of a challenge to get out on the floor, they can really do the job in breaking the ice and getting everyone to let their guard down. I have also found it to be VERY successful when doing weddings where the bride/groom are different nationalities. (last year I had a wedding where groom's side was korean and bride's side was chinese...worked like a charm!)
And of course, I can't remember the last time I DIDN'T do a snowball dance at a wedding. I merely offer the suggestions - making sure that they know that I do not come into it with an agenda - and they pick and choose what they want to do and 99.9% of the time, they go with a snowball. I love it!
Games do not have to be cheesy at all...it's all in the presentation.