As many know my son has spent two tours in Iraq and it looks like a third is coming. So when I say that what has happened Jay is a parents and families worst nightmare, I cannot begin to tell you how this has affected me. Many times you grieve for the families and their loss but you tend to put it in the perspective that you really dont know the family.
But this, somehow this board has made us family members and this just really gets to me. Jay your family is in my prayers. As you gather as a family remember the good. Dont remember the tragedy of death, but the greatness of his life. We are all there for you anytime you need us.