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I searched to see if this topic was already talked about but didn't seem to find it. I'm sure it has been. Wondering if any of you consistently use games at a reception? Do you coordinate that with the bride/groom prior? I assume so. If you do use them, what do you do?

I'm in the midwest and I've done it at venues that are more laid back (like a rural venue or barn venue etc). However, I've seen some very well raved about Dj's in my area on The Knot. Their reviews seem to indicate they do games all the time at their reception and their clients talk about thow much it got the crowd going, how much they loved it etc. I just have mixed feelings about them. I sort of feel like as a wedding Dj, we're not really supposed to be the center of attention and that while games can help infuse energy into the room sometimes it feels like folks just aren't into it (even assuming you have the right type of games) and you have no idea until you're knee deep in that swamp :-/ . I tend to take a professional, upbeat but low profile approach to emcee-ing the evening. I certainly have no problem leading games, especially if there are a lot of kids at the reception. I just sort of feel like it's a crap shoot. Guests typically don't know the dj and now you're trying to get them motivated to play along with something. It almost feels intrusive to the evening in my opinion. It's just a hard read. Thoughts?
 
We talk about it with the bride/groom. Some are really into it, some want nothing to do with it. When they are into it, I've never had an issue with the crowd.
 
I used to play games back in the 90s.... people did tend to enjoy it... but i have yet to play any since coming out of retirement... i prefer to build energy during dinner with music...and have it explode once dancing begins... if i didnt know how to create energy that way...i could see the temptation to try and build it in other ways like games... It would all really depend on the crowd...a crowd that is too "cool" for it would require a great dj to dazzle them and show them that you are cooler than them...lol....a crowd thats fun and happy go lucky might actually prefer a game...

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Midwest here and I don't unless requested by the bride and groom. And I do get quite a few requests for the shoe game, some for a wedding themed scavenger hunt pitting the groomsmen against the bridesmaids. I really don't like doing the games as I think they are pretty cheesy, but people do seem to like them (again the shoe game is probably the most popular)
 
I've done the shoe game....which is perfect because it's ALL about the bride and groom...
and because you can cut it short if (or, as soon as) it starts getting stale.

But at a wedding reception, I stay as far away from other games as much as possible.
Even though I usually handle myself more like a game show host than a DJ...
I don't feel a reception is the place for it.

I want the bride and groom to be the center of attention,
and there are way too many other things to do.
 
Good! All of these replies are echoing my same sentiments on the matter. Not into it and I feel like it takes away from the polished feel of the night. I think folks would rather drink, interact and dance than watch or play games. Thanks everyone!
 
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Good! All of these replies are echoing my same sentiments on the matter. Not into it and I feel like it takes away from the polished feel of the night. I think folks would rather drink, interact and dance than watch or play games. Thanks everyone!

yeah...for every guest who's into games...theres probably 9 others waiting for it to be over.

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