When doing a private event how do you handle someone who is causing a scene at the event?

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MIXMASTERMACHOM

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Please hear me out before you judge me. I'm asking this question because of the thread recently where Sawdust was doing a Christmas party and a guy that had to much to drink was harassing a few females.

If you were the DJ doing that party how would you handle such a thing? I remember him saying he found out about this happening. He didn't say when he found out just that he found out.

Anybody here ever have to deal with a person who's had to much to drink and starting trouble?

I was talking to my buddy that's a DJ and I said if they have a bartender. The bartender should nicely tell them they have had enough to drink. Some will protest and say I'm grown. The bartender should then nicely say it again without creating a scene.

I myself can't remember the last time while doing a private event that something like that happened. Now for me if I noticed something like that happening I would get on the mic and talk to them nicely to stop if there's no staff present at the time. What I do when it comes to something like that I first don't just agree to do an event just because there's money to be made. If I don't feel comfortable with doing that event because something like that might happen, I say no to doing the event.

Now before some of you come with a slick comment let me say this. My 2 big things I like to find out to begin with is the type of event it is and where the event is going to be. If I don't feel comfortable with either one of those things I will let them keep looking.

Now like I said it's been years since I had to worry about something happening at a private event.

I remember way back when I first came back we were doing an event and I was using a pair of Peavey SP-2G speakers, QSC 2450 amp, Numark CDN 88 and wired mic. At that event some guy that was drunk asked if he could play for a while saying let me do something. I nicely told him we got this and he went on his way. Never bothered us again the rest of the event.
 
It's not your event, not your venue, and not your guest list. If there's a problem with someone on the property you inform the facility staff, and/or the event host. It is their purview to determine how to handle it.

You can easily end up arrested or in a law suit for taking action on something that may appear to you to be one thing, but turns out to be something else entirely.
 
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Mixy, my encounter with the guy was after I packed up and we were looking for the hostess' phone. The bar was already closed. The guy recently rented a room from another friend of mine. I told her that her new roomie was a drunken asshole and she then told me about some of the women that complained about him. Another friend piped up about him too. I saw none of this while the party was going on. The cops were a few feet away investigating the accident while we were talking. They saw how drunk he was but only asked how we was getting home.
 
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Please hear me out before you judge me. I'm asking this question because of the thread recently where Sawdust was doing a Christmas party and a guy that had to much to drink was harassing a few females.

If you were the DJ doing that party how would you handle such a thing? I remember him saying he found out about this happening. He didn't say when he found out just that he found out.

Anybody here ever have to deal with a person who's had to much to drink and starting trouble?

I was talking to my buddy that's a DJ and I said if they have a bartender. The bartender should nicely tell them they have had enough to drink. Some will protest and say I'm grown. The bartender should then nicely say it again without creating a scene.

I myself can't remember the last time while doing a private event that something like that happened. Now for me if I noticed something like that happening I would get on the mic and talk to them nicely to stop if there's no staff present at the time. What I do when it comes to something like that I first don't just agree to do an event just because there's money to be made. If I don't feel comfortable with doing that event because something like that might happen, I say no to doing the event.

Now before some of you come with a slick comment let me say this. My 2 big things I like to find out to begin with is the type of event it is and where the event is going to be. If I don't feel comfortable with either one of those things I will let them keep looking.

Now like I said it's been years since I had to worry about something happening at a private event.

I remember way back when I first came back we were doing an event and I was using a pair of Peavey SP-2G speakers, QSC 2450 amp, Numark CDN 88 and wired mic. At that event some guy that was drunk asked if he could play for a while saying let me do something. I nicely told him we got this and he went on his way. Never bothered us again the rest of the event.
Best thing you could do is stay in your lane. Not your problem.

I mean hell, you couldn’t handle a situation when someone was actively touching/breaking your gear.
 
Best thing you could do is stay in your lane. Not your problem.

I mean hell, you couldn’t handle a situation when someone was actively touching/breaking your gear.

The people at the old folks home can get out of control.
 
The people at the old folks home can get out of control.
Thanks I needed that laugh. It's not a old folks home. It's the Walley Choice Community Center. We're there on Monday, Thursday and Friday when the faculty is open. As I've said in the past I stay away from doing certain events because my Spidy sense says just say no.