What are things that factor into if you agree to do an event or not?

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MIXMASTERMACHOM

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Let's get the first big thing out of the way. The price a potential client wants to pay to book you. Sometimes there's room for negotiations and other times what they want to pay is not enough to get you to do the event. Just not worth it.

My 3 other things I think of is are we the right fit for the event? Yes we can stretch the envelope a bit. Like the time we did a Baby Shower and they wanted Spanish music. We did the event and they had a great time. At the end they decided they wanted some American music. We pulled it off even though we're not experts at Spanish music.

I just like to be careful so we don't end up ruining a client's event and make us look bad.

The next thing is if we have enough gear to do the event (which now we've added on a bunch of stuff that we can do larger events. ). So unless it's a big festival type of event then we're good to go.

The other 2 things are the type of event it is, who the event is for including the people attending the event and where the event is to take place. All someone used to have to do was contact us and we would rush to the event anywhere for practically any amount of money. That's when I was super excited to be back doing what I love to do and in need of exposure. Not today. I'm selective as to the type of events we do and the location the is to take place. My top priority today is safety first. That's because a lot of crazy people are out in the world doing crazy things.
 
I try to have a good exchange in some form with the person contacting me. My first questions are usually what kind of event, and location/times/etc. Then I ask them how they picture their event going (looking for options to upsell services if event sounds like a good fit). We also are breaking into small to medium live sound pro audio events. My other prescreener is once I offer services and send contract I give them 48 hours to pay deposit and return contract if they take longer than that date is open. Until they complete those task.
 

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I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners
 
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I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners
Welcome Nightmare.

Your unsolicited and inexperienced opinion is hereby noted...and properly addressed...ushing-toilet-in-bathroom-of-residential-house-(4).jpg


FYI, nothing in any internet forum prohibits or promotes anyone from being great.
 
I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners

Mix is a pretty unique case. What you haven't experience is him asking the same questions, over and over and over again, people spend their time and energy answering and trying to help, then he never takes the advice and never makes improvements. He's tested everyone's patience and fully deserves any level of abuse he gets. He's most likely just a troll, and enjoys the attention.
 
I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners

Welcome to the board...You are about the 30th person to join and have that opinion...It lasts for about a week and you realize he reaps what he sews
 
I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners

Felt the exact same way the day i joined....kept feeling it for a week...maybe two... then i attempted to help him out with a situation he was having... i think he never responded.... still felt he was a victim to all these mean old turdheads.... i kept trying to defend him... answer questions... sympathize...take his side... about a month in...it was all i could take...

Godspeed on your journey of Mix discovery Nightmare...

For the record... most of the razzing comes from a place of love.... we all do it with one another... its just Mix came defenseless to this match of wits.

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I have a cousin who is special needs... as a kid he actually bullied most of us... his mother would laugh... i acclamated to the notion that the best approach was to treat him normal...so i gave it right back to him.... at age 18 he was in Ecuador doing relief work...at 24 he owned his own home and had a lucrative painting business....now hes married to a very sweet young lady... The mentally challenged can be stunted by pity....and angered by special treatment... who wants a life where people treat you with kid gloves...

Im not saying Mix is special needs....but if the helmet fits..

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From what you've told us...you arent experts in American music either

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No that's not it. As I said I just don't chase after any old event anymore. The event has to be in a nice venue in a nice location when deciding if we want to do the event or not. Certain styles of music with certain crowds is a no go for me.

One member recently mentioned someone contacting them about doing an event and they specifically wanted the DJ to play songs with explicit lyrics. They insisted that's what they wanted. That DJ turned the event down. I would have done they say it's OK. You can play it. I don't care to do so and besides that such clients are very cheap. So ridiculously cheap that it's not worth it and you get no other work from it.
 
I'm still pretty new around here but yall sure do give Machoman a hard time, let him be great being internet bullies isn't a good look for anyone lol especially adult business owners
You're right, you are new here. As we've seen it happen, you will offer help and then you'll soon be standing in the same shoes we are - and someone new will be asking why you're so tough on him.
 
Welcome Mr. Nightmare.
Let me jump on the bandwagon.
Don't just read what we say to him....
carefully read how he replies and you will see a pattern of denial, distraction and avoidance.

But if you skip past the responses we get...
you'll see that we have all offered a large amount of good advice.
Perhaps you will get more out of it than he does.
 
I get what yall are saying but If he isn't accepting of advice what good comes from belittling or bullying him? That makes him want to do what yall suggested? Also, advice is on it's face something people could take or leave right? If someone ask me for advice, i give it, they don't do what i suggested I go on abt my life lol thats me maybe I am just a different mindset than most here i guess lol
 
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I get what yall are saying but If he isn't accepting of advice what good comes from belittling or bullying him? That makes him want to do what yall suggested? Also, advice is on it's face something people could take or leave right? If someone ask me for advice, i give it, they don't do what i suggested I go on abt my life lol thats me maybe I am just a different mindset than most here i guess lol
It's not just advice that Mix has ignored, people have made him websites, gave him contract templates and even a business plan outline. At some point you throw up your hands .. and then when the questions continue you start throwing other things out.
 
I get what yall are saying but If he isn't accepting of advice what good comes from belittling or bullying him? That makes him want to do what yall suggested? Also, advice is on it's face something people could take or leave right? If someone ask me for advice, i give it, they don't do what i suggested I go on abt my life lol thats me maybe I am just a different mindset than most here i guess lol

The problem isn't so much the asking or giving of advice. It's the failure to heed any advice - good, bad or otherwise - and then to turn around and ask for the very same advice for the very same issue again. Advice is just advice ... and it is optional, on both ends. If the intent is to continue asking for advice regardless of the advice, then say that up front and it will most likely alleviate alot of communication and alot of frustration. As shown, it's not just advice.

Suppose someone asked you for advice. They don't do what you suggested - so you go on about your life ... but then, you (or the group) are asked for advice for the very same thing you already gave advice on from the very same person. Now, expand that to multiple forums. How many times before you throw your hands up?

Ever hear of the boy that cried wolf? One of his siblings lives here. Everyone here has tried to help him - and you are more than welcome to try.
 
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I get what yall are saying but If he isn't accepting of advice what good comes from belittling or bullying him? That makes him want to do what yall suggested? Also, advice is on it's face something people could take or leave right? If someone ask me for advice, i give it, they don't do what i suggested I go on abt my life lol thats me maybe I am just a different mindset than most here i guess lol

lol... please stick around.

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I get what yall are saying but If he isn't accepting of advice what good comes from belittling or bullying him?

He goes away.

P.S. Of course, many years of history and thousands of pieces of helpful advice (ignored) prove, that ain't likely to happen.